Should i let go for good or just give him space?

I was in a relationship for year 1/2 and we broke up in nov. He says he still loves me, but he just does not think it's best for us to be together right now. Sometimes he acts as if he does not care about me at all, other times he acts like he can't live...

without me. I really care about him and would like to try to work it out but I am not sure what to do. Should I just let it go for good or just give him and me space and see what happens with time. Let me know what you think.

Thanks
~Rene~

As a guy, I would love to have my cake and eat it too. Your man is doing that. If the relationship is open for him and not for you then he is trying to live the dream of many men to have a steady emotional tie to a girl that could be your baby's mother one day and have the freaks on the side that you just use for physical reasons. If he isn't going to make a decision about being with you then he probably isn't grown enough to know what he wants. He may be worth the wait or he could be stringing you along for a terrible emotional roller coaster. You can't change the man, so if he is bad now don't expect a better man later.

Guys are hot and cold, one minute you feel they love you, next they act like you dont exsist. When it gets to this situation you need to think of number 1..you. Becos he is on and off but it is you who is suffering, you who gets your hopes up and then crushed..you who gets your bubble burst everyweek and on an emotional rollercoaster. Guys are allowed to be confused about how they feel, its normal, but when they are taking someone for a ride while being confused, thats not fair. So you need to step up and take a step back, becos you cant keep going like this, its time you said to him that you cant take the mixed messages all the time and to leave you alone for a bit, give each other some space so he can really work out what he wants, becos as long as he nos he can call you and you'll be there he isnt making an effort to work it out, he nos your there anyway. If you arnt he will feel the difference more and get to the bottom of how he feels about you.