How can I stop being so shy around boys?

I wouldn't say I'm shy at school but I can be insecure. Well I hate admtting this but I am 14 and boy shy. LIke it is not extreme but a little esp. when I like the guy. I hate it, HATE IT. it seems like im the only one. I try not to be and like with some guys I'm not at all but other times I am. It is kinda hard to explain. I don't wona be and I think some guys might thinkk im snoby(however you spell that) but I'm really not. And sometimes im shy infront of girls too. it depends. Like guys will tease me and stuff and I never know how to responde. I try and be natural and stuff. What should I do?Please tell me im not the only one? And how do I overcome it?

tell him how you feel you will feel a lot better after

and if he disses you he's a jerk and didn't need him anyways

Your are NOT the only one. I use to be kind of shy around certain boys at that age. We all have our own individual personalities. We are who we are. Some of us are quiet, some loud, and some just plain obnoxious! As we get older, we start coming out of our shell (if we are more on the shy side) You cant force yourself to be someone your not! Being shy around boys might mean you arent ready for a relationship just yet. I know I wasnt at 14. Its not just going to happen overnight. Just be yourself, and if the boys dont like you for who you are, thats their problem! Once you start to feel confident, and secure with yourself...good things will start to happen! Theres someone for each of us out there somewhere. I believe that!