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Am I being used?

Asked by natty67 about 1 year ago, 6 answers.
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Well.. My boyfriend and I have been 2getha for 2yrs and ever since we did it last year he keeps nagging for s*x consistently. And when I say no he gets upset and everything and I feel guilty so I do it with him. He always gets his own way with me, And my friends all say that he's using me but I dont want to believe it.
I love him with all of my heart and I dont want to leave him, But if he is using me I dont know of what I should do..
And I went away last year to see my brother and when I was away he slept with my best friend because I wasnt their. I accepted that and now every time I see them together the thought of that happening scares the hell out of me.
HELP PLEASE!

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lol Answered by harmony on Jun 25, 2007, 10:19AM
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DROP HIM LIKE HE'S HOT!! what a jerk!! sorry to say it but I think he is useing u, what guy make's his girl fell bad about not haveing s*x with him that's wrong, you shouldnt fell bad HE SHOULD!! and if he slept with your best friend knowing that would hurt you? he's a dog.

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me wiv mi hair all scrunched up Answered by evilpinkpunkfairy on Jun 24, 2007, 04:38AM
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DUMP HIM! I know it's hard but..HE CHEATED ON YOU! Have some respect for yourself and dump him!
Hope this helped hunni and good luck! x

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Answered by yellowflashdance634 on Jun 24, 2007, 07:00AM
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Break up with him. Obviously he is not the guy for you. There I said it. Im sorry. I know you must love this guy since your still with him after all that he has done to u. But you deserve so much beter then your best friend (who obviously isnt your best friend since she slept with your boyfriend in the first place) and your boyfriend. Look, I know, trust me I know that it is hard to break up with your boyfriend. Especially when your in love but think of it this way: He isnt in love with you because he he was well lets just say, he would not bug you about s*x all the time. And also dont be friends with your best frined because obviously if you keep up this relationshit with her she might do the same thing with your husband someday. Take these two people out of your life and I gurrantee happiness and a brighter future. you will have other more loyal best frineds and of course a lot more loyal and UNDERSTANDING boyfriends. Please answer on what you decide to do

Answered by angelfire2708 on Jun 24, 2007, 10:23AM
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Girl, where are your priorities? HE IS JUST USING YOU! He doesnt care about you. He cheated on you. You have to realize that you are worth more than that, and you deserve someone who will treat you as a person, not some sex object! Dont sit and make excuses for him. He slept with your best friend because YOU werent there? If he cheated once on you, chances are he will do it again. Especially now that he knows you will take him back! You have basically told him that it was ok to cheat, because you took him back! That just goes to show you what hes all about. Hes not into you. He doesnt respect you in the least, and you need to have respect for yourself or hes going to keep walking all over you!

Even if you manage to get past the lies, and the heartache, a cloud will always hang over your relationship. Youll never truly feel cherished, or completely loved. And you deserve better than that! Why torture yourself with feelings of self-doubt and insecurity? Tell that cheater to hit the road, lock yourself up with your closest friends, a stack of sappy movies, and a couple quarts of your favorite brand of frozen happiness. Move on, and find someone who gives you the love and respect you deserve. You have the power here. People will only treat you as poorly (or as well) as you allow them to. So, draw a line....... as of today, your high standards are renewed.

Good Luck!

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my baby Answered by crunkjuice on Jun 27, 2007, 07:43AM
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Don't give it to him for three months. see if he sticks around. if not, theres your answer.

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say my name Answered by preah on Jun 28, 2007, 01:08PM
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oh my god he playin you girl big time!! I understand what you mean, I m in that same sitch, but I know you say you'r in love him! and I know how it fell's to let go!! but you have to try!! be storng!! you can do it if I did you can!!

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