I think i'm ready to lose it...

I think I just may be ready to lose my virginity..to this guy..but im not sure.I mean I feel physically ready..but not too mentally ready.I know if he comes around again and im alone..I think I just might do it..im so confused right now..I mean I may be...

doing it for all the wrong reasons..but I really want to know what its like.My friends do it right in front of me with guys when we are alone at home it looks so fun and loos like it feels good too.The guys dont mind at all and they say ill love it!And stuff..so one of my girl friends says she knows a guy..I met him hes really cute and everything..hes done it..he isnt infected..I know..theres proof.And he really wants to do it.I want to do it too with him..its a once in a lifetime..what do you think should I?Or am I letting my urges get to me too much?Thanks

you shouldnt.
1. your on here questioning it, your not ready.
2. your not in a relationship. your first times supposed to be w/ someone special.
3. what kind of proof, did you see actual proof of a test?
4. what if you got pregnant? protection doesnt always work.
5. you want to do it for all the wrong reasons, looks fun, looks like it feels good?

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wait for someone your in love with, in a committed relationship-if not married.
someone you could have a baby with and KNOW you wont get anything.
someone who'd be there for you if anything did happen.

Well is really up to you though. If you want to loose your virginity to a total stranger then go for it, but their is always a slight chance you might regret it. You may have to think about it first. And you said you witnessed your friends having sex right infront you, well to me is like being pressured. You say your physically ready, but are you sure you are mentally ready? You really need to question yourself whether or not you are ready, like literally you are. There is also a slight chance that once you do it, you may never know the condom might bust and stuff. I don't say things like this to scare you or anything, but is your first time, think thoroughly with it. Being a virgin is pure innocence, but don't you want to do it with the right person? But, basically is really up to you. But I still think you are being pressured by your friends and that shouldn't be a reason as to why you want to loose it with someone you barely met. =D Hope everything turns out good for you though. =^.^=

Well you should be very very picky about who you want to do it with...is this someone who really wants you for who you are or someone who just want to have sex...

...if it was me I wud wait until its wit the right person mentally, physically and when I feel 1000% comfortable cause when you give it away you can never get it back... u dn want to do sumthing you will regret

thanks everyone..hes hott but gets drunk a lot..we are a bunch of teens who get bored and do too much and when I think about it..it is pressure,.,but the pressure is worse than beating heat!And when im at a friends its like 4 against me..and they are like super pushy,one time they even pinned me down and the guy got on me,he took off his clothes and everything.I thought that was going to be it,until my BFF said no and to stop the joking until im ready ready.I love these people though..I mean they are my buddies but im not sure if ill please them with my answer.

dont worry a bout pleasing anyone but yourself..
this is a big deal, not something your friends should encourage w/ some random guy.
they dont have your best interest at heart.

I hate that every 13-15 year old girl has asked a stupid question like this !

I cannot stress enough how stupid having sex at a young age is. You have you whole life to discover and enjoy sex with someone your married too and love. I'm 16 and still a virgin. Sure, my boyfriend wants to have sex with me. But just because he wants it, doesn't mean I have to have sex with him. I have more respect for myself than just giving my body away to a boyfriend just because we love each other. Your still a child. No matter how badly you think your a teenager or adult, your still too young. When I was 13 years old all I ever thought about doing was, riding my bike and going swimming and hanging out with my friends. Not getting f*cked like all the rest of these horny little kids are thinking now.

And seriously think about it, is maybe 30 minutes of pleasure worth 9 months of pain in labor and 18 years of your life raising another human being? I think not.

your physically ready from the day you get boobs nn start your period but mentally ready isnt decided you wait until you r sure that you want to have sex with the right guy im 15 and most of the people I know have had sex which I think is stupid because none of them are in serious relationships..anyway I know I wont be ready for sex for a long time so dont do it

You are definitely NOT ready!

Bad Reasons for sex
· A need for sex.
· You want the person to love you.
· Social pressure to perform.
· Nothing more to talk about.
· Boredom.
· A curiosity to find out if there's any chemistry.
· You want to make someone else jealous.
· To persuade your partner to leave his or her current partner.
· You're challenging a dare.
· An attempt to solidify the relationship.

SOMETIMES SEEING ISNT BELIEVING..☻