I think i'm losing my bf

I am DESPERATE to get my best friend back. I love him to death and miss him so much, but his slutty/cheater girlfriend takes up all his free time. We used to do everything together, and I really miss the way things used to be. I talked to him about it,...

but it seemed to get us nowhere. He doesn't visit me anymore and we never hang out together because he says his gf will think he's cheating on her if he spends any time with me. The only time I get to see him is if I drive to sneak and visit him at work, which is so inconvenient for me. It doesn't seem fair to me that I have to be sacrificed just because his cheater gf is insecure. Do you think he really cares about me anymore if he's so willing to ditch me for his bimbo gf? Should I try to do something to get him back... if so what? Please help. :-(

Hunthe key word here is gf! Hes dating someone. I think your jealous that your best friend has a lover!! Your making it sound like hes with you! How would you feel if he was your bf, and he was hanging out with another girl? How can you expect him to hang out like you used to when he has a gf? He doesnt sound like hes a best friendim getting the impression hes more! A friend is someone who is always there no matter what! Be there for him if he ever needs an earbut dont expect him to ditch his gf for you!

I dont expect him to ditch his gf for me at all... that's totally not what I'm saying. The thing is, we've been best friends for years, we grew up together so we're really close, he's like a brother to me. We've both been in relationships and always found ways to balance time out with each other, but he's not doing that anymore. I'm not jealous of his gf at all, and all I really want is for him to be happy. However, I do miss him and I do wish we could still find ways to spend time with each other because he's an important person in my life. Trust me, I am NOT jealous and don't want to be more than friends with him at all.

Hope that cleared things up...

if she's really cheating on him, then maybe you should go ahead and tell him that. try talking to his girlfriend and make friends with her, then when she has trust in you, she wont feel so insecure about you and her boyfriend hanging out.

i understand what your saying, but look at the names you are calling his gf! If SHES taking up all his time, blame him! If he didnt want to, he wouldnt! Life is changing all the time. Nothing ever stays the same! He obviously loves his gf if he wants to be with her all the time!