I think hes cheating

Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 3 months. i feel like things are different with us now...he used to always come and see me and call me all the time. and now its seems like hes not feeling me anymore. he barely calls me anymore, he comes home late...

and says he was working late. he goes to the bathroom when he gets phonecalls. he speaks spanish and i really dont. but i can tell if its a female. He always says that im cheating or doing stuff behind his back. so please let me know if you think he has another interest or he might really be cheating.

Either if he's cheating on you or not, it's only been 3 months and if he's acting like this now, imagine how it will be in 6? Imagine having a child with him. DUMP HIM NOW.

Sounds like the New Relationship Energy has faded....a little early I would watch him....but best if you talk to him and ask directly if there is anything wrong because of the changes in your relationship.....communication is the key to a good relationship and will tell you which wrinkles need to be pressed out.

Dear Malone,
It sounds like he is developing his own interests....it may be a girl who knows. It sounds like either way he is not showing you the attention he once did. (For whatever reason)

Try and talk to him and be honest and explain to him what you are feeling. He IS keeping something from you and usually when it's us guys keeping something away from our girfriend/wife....it's a woman. I can't say for sure of course, but don't marry him and don't have any kids. Just take it nice and slow. It's not much but I hope it helps....Funmail me if you have more questions and I can be more detailed for you.
Familycoach

I believe the consensus is that he is cheating. I am truly sorry about this. Losing someone, even the bad ones can be a trying experience. However, listen to the folk here and try to get away from this relationship even if he wants to stay together..... good luck.