I slept with a good friend of mine.

well about a week ago I lost my virginity to a guy considered a player, we hang out all the time and everything, and I've been pretty attracted to him for a while, but now after we had sex I haven't really talked to him or anything... and of course all...

of his friends and his brother all know what happened. Was I just used? Will something better happen between us? Will at least go back to normal?

Do not worry!! You have got that boy for your first time who you liked. It is good. You may say that even YOU were who used him. This depends on the point of view. Since you write that he told this having sex with you to everybody, that is clear he is not a real gentleman. So be happy of that your one night relationship is ended. It would be stupid to have a partner who tells everything to everybody the next day when something happened. But try to remain a good friend, without more sex. If your friendship is ended, that should not be your fault, so your soul remains good and fair. And since you have lost your virginity now you may look for a real fitting boy, who is mature enough to have a relationship with you. I think all the story that happened to you is just all right. You may look at the face of everybody, do not feel embarrassed.

in my opinion, your friendship is ruined, unless he calls you or he comes to your house, if not, you have to talk 2 him and check what happened, I mean you dont want to be used do u??

well he just called a few hours ago... and said he wanted to hang out later, so maybe I can save the friendship? Unless he just want's a booty call.