I really need advice, quickly..

My friend has had a boyfriend for about a year and 3 months but they are on and off now and to be honest I dont really like her boyfriend. Hes an asswhole who uses her for hookups sometimes but she's to whipped to really realize anything. They both...

are.

While they were seeing eachother , everyday they get in some stupid fight because he's really protective over her and wont let her wear tanktops or anything like talking to other guys.

Anyway, while they were in some fights, she was hanging out with this girl who is both of our friends but a complete biotch. And the biotch's attitude and personailty sort of reflected onto my friend and she changed a bit.

The biotch (wont say her name) took my friend to several parties and she got her into drinking and she has hooked up with atleast 4-5 guys. And she get hypocritical if herboyfriend talks to girls when I want to question her How do you think he would feel if he found out what you really did

The other night we both got drunk, and she talks to a lot of guys on myspace and we had seen some of them for the first time, and it felt to me she was all over them, when she KNOWS she shouldnt be because her and her boyfriend are not in a fight. And I think the excuse well I was drunk is wayy stupid now, and it's being used several times by her.

She really isnt a slut, she is just a complete idiot. I dont want to be a biotch and yell at her, I just want to have a talk with her but I dont know how to word it because I dont want to loose our really close friendship.

This is literally a time when I really need advice.. also for her help. I know I think her boyfriend is a complete asswhole but I also know nothing can split them apart. And I dont want them to get in a fight or she has regrets. Its so hard to explain everything. I just needs someones help.

Well, like you said, nothing will split them up so you shouldn't try. Just sit down your friend and let her know how you're feeling. Another way to do it is write a letter. It helps because she can't yell back or try to defend herself. Explain that you don't want this to ruin your friendship because you guys are really close and stuff. Just tell her you kind of concerned about her and want what's best for her. Maybe you could try telling her that you think she's in an unhealthy relationship with her boyfriend because of all the fighting. Tell her you don't want to break them up, you just want her to be happier. You could also tell her that the girl she's hanging out with is kind of rubbing off on her and she changes when she's with her. Sure, she may be mad at first, but hopefully it won't ruin your relationship. If you guys truely are best friends it shouldn't effect your friendship, at least not much. She might even agree with you. You never know until you take a chance right?

Good luck with whatever you decide! I know the situation you're in is really hard, I've been in a similar one and it's not fun

sounds like your friend and her boy friend should just work out there own problems. and you shouldnt get involved in more drama since that biotch came along. just talk your friend when she isnt wasted and things may get better..I doubt a close friendship will get screwed up just because of a convo to get your life back on track