How can I fix this relationship?

okay so me and my girlfriend just broke up. Her best friend just died in their accident last Friday on their way to the beach I feel awful but then again in the right because its been almost 2 months since we've seen each other and we can hardly talk on the phone because of her parents and she called me last nite and I got mad because she was hanging out with a bunch of people and didn't even insist on trying to see me when she had the opportunity. She talks a lot about how much she loves me and misses me but says she just needs some time because of the accident and is hanging out with her friends because she doesn't want to be alone but why wouldn't she insist on seeking me out? Someone shes been close to for awhile? I feel awful. I got really mad and broke up w/her and I'm a complete wreck about it. I can't even get in touch w/her she gets online once a week.

If you really want to fix this relationship I suggest you give her a call/send an email and apologize for your reaction. Explain to her in a calm manner about why you feel hurt and angry and assure her you understand its not easy handling the death of a friend and you want to be there for her but she is not making it possible for you to be there for her.
The fact that she called does show that shes thinking of you. Wait it out till the next time you can call or see her online.
All the best.

well you should have though before you did any thing the onlii thing I can say is keep trying to get in contact wit her email her do eveny thing you havet to

1st im really sorry to hear about your gfs horrible circumstances in losing a friend like that.
2nd your girlfriend is in all sorts, she prob has no idea what to do next and is just needed someone, anyone around for support and comfort and becos of your past she feels its just easier for her to be around friends right now. She doesnt need the extra pressure of a break up and you making this about you right now, you need to talk to her, call her next chance you get and speak to her about what happened and tell her you are there for her becos she just lost a best friend and now she think she has lost you to!