I need truthful answer's on my situation, with my g/f.

I have a problem, I am with a women who said she was raped by my dad, not only once but three time's, she said the first was when she was 19 and gave him a ride home and he made her stop at an old house to get some things from the old house, once inside...

he pushed down and raped her. I didn't see so change in her around him,and when we would argue and she would leave he would be the first to drive and get her, another time was when we lived in a old trailer and we went swimming, we asked him to bring her to get dry clothes and towel's she went yet she knew they would be alone and she still went and yet she said he rapes her.another time was when I was drunk and went to a party she went with him to look for me and he was also drunk and ended up going to that trailer again and she never told me until year's later, I don't know what to believe, please help me, she also said there were time's he was gonna do it again on a dirt road but the cops pulled up and he acted like the car wouldnt stop and another time whn he started humping her and my mom was right in the other room. and another time the kid's were out side playing.and once when I went out and he tried it again and she smacked him, so I dont know what the fuck to believe...

Well... Personally, you have no grounds not to believe her, but then again if she waited a long time to tell you and let it happen multiple times... Talk to her about it with both of them.

First off, tell you Dad hands off. Now and forever. You don't have to be mean, but make it very firm, that he is not to be alone with her at all.

Talk to her. Make her tell you everything. Then, make her promise not to be alone with him again. And if he tries something, immediately tell you.

I'm not speaking for all girls here, but what tends to happen is if a girl is in that kind of predicament. They will try to ignore it hoping to will go away. Especially if it might ruin a relationship between you and your father. The thing is by ignoring it, it makes the guy think its ok. Therefore continues.

thats a hard one...one of my exs dads we kinda like that towards me, they never made contact w me but theyd text me dirty messages...
if you know her well you should b able to tell if shes lieing...dont confront your dad about it yet! it will make him angry and be mad at both of you if its true or not! make sure its true before you talk to him...if its true shel most liekly not want to talk much about it...

...is this the same COUSIN that YOU'RE having sex with?

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