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Asked by soldier 2 months ago, 11 answers.

So how far away is too far for a long distance relationship?
Is a long distance evan worth the trouble?...evan if you may not see the person for a long time?
I'm so thru with girls around here...maby a different state will give me a different kinda...

girl...time will tell.

Answered by deiseldom on Sep 20, 2009, 07:35PM
12 answers

depends on how far and often you are willing to drive to see this girl?

Answered by michellekay13 on Sep 20, 2009, 07:35PM
110 answers

Well I live in Minnesota and my boyfriend lives in California. And we have been dating for 7mths havent even seen each other, but im so fu#cking excited to see him! He and I have gotten so close I mean we may not be right there with each other, but he has insicurety issues and I got some problems too. But we exceped each other right away. We cant have sex so we have phone sex and send naughty pictures to each other. And we talk about everything with each other. This is my second long distance relationship the 1st went for over a year. And I broke up with him because he was never talking to me. So I got mad, me and Jose talk consitently!!!

Answered by questionable1 on Sep 20, 2009, 08:29PM
196 answers

my stories a lot like michelles, I've been with my boyfriend for a 11 months this tuesday, im in florida and hes in cali. things arent perfect but then again what relationship is perfect? I am crazy in love with him, I dont care what people have to say about us not meeting. I talk to him every day all the time about everything. hes my best friend. the one thing I can honestly say about long distance relationships is that they take a lot of communication and understanding. its not easy, but totally worth it if you find the right person.

Answered by questionable1 on Sep 20, 2009, 08:31PM
196 answers

oh and a great place to find a bunch of people all over go to chat.aim.com thats where I met the love of my life (: good luck!

Answered by maebee on Sep 21, 2009, 05:43AM
1889 answers

Being in a long distance relationship is worth it if you love them. It takes a lot of tears, worry, and dedication. Don't let people tell you it is impossible or a waste of time. What do you think happens in a military families? We get separtated by deployments but it doesn't stop our love. Trust me when you haven't seen your significant other in months and they walk in the door the feeling you get is amazing. People in long distance relationships don't take each other for granted as much and seem to love each other more than those who each one another everyday. So yes, its all worth it. =o)

Answered by loulou11 on Sep 21, 2009, 10:32AM
1063 answers

I think if both people work at it and are faithful then it could work out. It requires a lot of trust in each other. If you really care about someone and want it to work then go for it, just don't think that it's going to be an easy thing to do. If you are planning on seeing each other then you have to be willing to travel and that depends on how far you are comfortable with traveling to see each other. In the end it just comes down to how committed the two people are to each other.

Answered by georgia_peach on Sep 24, 2009, 07:41AM
24 answers

Being in a long distance relationship is sooo worth it. at least to me it was. My ex fiance is a Marine. we love eachother so much that distance was never a problem. Yes we missed being together but who wouldnt when your away from someone you love.
1) Make sure you/she will remain faithful
2)make sure she can HANDLE a military life(its HARD AS HELL!)
3) make sure its really LOVE. if its not then it wont survive long distance.
4) make sure you/she trust eachother completly. (its VERY important.)

I know your Army but Semper fidelis (ALWAYS FAITHFUL)

Answered by meg_a_xoxo on Sep 27, 2009, 07:00PM
107 answers

sum say if you can keep in contact it is ok 2 b in a relation
I think that you should b able 2 c the person face 2 face every once in a while

Answered by lexxi5 on Oct 11, 2009, 08:44PM
196 answers

all I gotta say is that ill definently be your long distance ladie
we can make it work
as long as you visit every once in awhile
happy happy happy happy

Answered by xokrystalklearxo on Oct 16, 2009, 02:27AM
950 answers

I don't suggest it..I was in a long distance relationship it's so hard and you haveta have a lot of trust for the person. It's worth a try though I guess you never no it could work out. Good luck =]

Answered by gayguy0069 on Oct 19, 2009, 12:16PM
258 answers

The only real problem with long distance relationships is that you don't always get to meet the real person you are talking to
In this virtual world they can be anyone and it sometimes leads to disappointment

try online dating, its just as bad!
Only difference is that everyone can see their pictures and you won't know how recent they are
You can't really know someone without actually meeting them

For the record I've had 3 long distance relationships and they all promise to meet eventually, none have and its been years since some started