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How to leave my abusive boyfriend?

Aww Asked by ashleysims08 6 months ago, 9 answers.
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I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now..and I love him very much but lately he doesnt act hisself anymore he hits me I've had 2 miscarriages from him doing all this..I want to leave him so bad but I cant I've tried but I love him way to much...Wut should I do???

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Jeremy Goodrich yep, that's me Answered by thedude on Jan 16, 2008, 12:26PM
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Leave him and press charges. Nobody deserves to be abused. Please get help.

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Answered by fau on Jan 16, 2008, 01:12PM
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I understand that you love him but for someone to get treated that way is bad and I'm sure your not a bad person you can do better guys that do that and still end up with the girl just gives them more power and control over you

flower Answered by zorbot on Jan 16, 2008, 01:52PM
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Being in an abusive relationship is like an emotional roller coaster that leaves you empty yet addicted. Most women in abusive relationships stick around because they get 'highs' from the little bit of affection that their partner does show them. See when he hits you (which is against the law for a good reason since he could kill or seriously hurt you) he doesn't do it because he loves you, he does it because he needs some serious help and should see a psychologist. People don't hit each other when they love each other. When he comes crawling back after beating you into a miscarriage saying that he is sorry, that he loves you and that he needs you, it's his way of manipulating you into feeling guilty or needed. There is no easy way to go about this. Both you and him have some serious issues that you have to work out alone. If you stick around this will happen over and over again. And if you do end up having kids he might attack them too or end up beating you in front of them. Is this relationship really worth all the pain? Why do you let yourself be treated this way? Would you treat him the way he treats you? These are some of the questions you have to start asking yourself. The best thing you could do for you, for him and for your future children is get out as soon as possible. Go to a shelter for abused women, get help with a psychologist, reach out to your friends and family. You deserve better.

.. Answered by 4987627602 on Jan 16, 2008, 03:52PM
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u should call the police duh!
and have like bruises to show them, you might love him lots but if he hits you he probally DOESNT!

its just like you tell someone you like them they say they dont like you then you MOVE on

Answered by imprettycool0 on Jan 24, 2008, 10:56AM
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You really do need to leave him, I think. Women shouldn't be abused.

Avatar Answered by gargantulakon on Jan 24, 2008, 11:41AM
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He obviously does not love you back if he abuses you. It is so sad when I see my friends abused, yet stay with their boyfriend since they are afraid of leaving him. Nothing is worth getting abused like that.

Slowly come to realize that it is not worth loving someone who does not feel the same as you do. Then slowly talk to him about how you feel and hopefully he will understand. If he threatens you, seek help from the police.

Sweet! Answered by oklahoma on Jan 28, 2008, 12:01PM
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GET HELP!
GOOD LUCK!
xoxo
-Jayliza-

black and white Answered by iwishiwasbeautiful on Feb 18, 2008, 07:48PM
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OMG I'VE EXPERIENCED THAT TOO. I JUSS GOT REAL SERIOUS WITH HIM AND TOLD HIM IF HE EVER PUT HIS HANDS ON ME AGAIN ITS OVER BETWEEN US. I LOVE HIM TOO AND HE LOVES ME BUT HE MAY NOT LOVE you THAT MUCH IF HE FEELS THAT THE ONLY WAY TO LET HIS ANGER OUT IS TO HIT YOU. THATS HOW I THOUGHT ABOUT. BUT ITS DIFFERENT IF HE MADE you HAVE 2 MISSCARRIAGES=I THINK THAT HE HAS NO RESPECT FOR you OR HIMSELF AND YOU SHOULD LEAVE HIM. DONT ANSWER HIS PHONE CALLS OR ANYTHING JUSS DO you AND KNOW you DESERVE BETTER THAN THAT. GOD WILL TAKE CARE OF THE REST.

Answered by monsta616 on Feb 29, 2008, 11:49PM
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you said you love him. but do you love when he hits you? get away from it, and go to some one that treats you how you like to be treated.

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