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I need some relationship advice in a way please help !!?

:) Asked by lovebug16 3 months ago, 2 answers.

Ok well I asked My friend Jon who I have known for 3-4 years too move in with me we are attracted to each other and have been for a few years now. He said yes so I am happy about that but here's a few problems.

1. My other friend Jamie really likes me...

and I like him he wants to be with me and I find that sweet but I have known Jon longer and hes been there for me and I think it maybe fate if Jon and I are together cause every guy that I have ever been with I have left cause I always want Jon more then the rest.
( And yea I know if we like each other why aren't we dating well that's a little complicated not even I fully understand it so I'm not gonna go into that.)

so that's prob 1 prob 2. Is I don't know how to tell Jamie that I am gonna be with Jon and not him I feel bad even thinking about having to tell him this hes nice and sweet. I can tell he cares for me deeply hes liked me for a long time now I can tell and hes just now expressing his feeling to me I really hate to have to hurt him.

prob 3. Jon gained weight and now looks like my because's hubby who I dis like I love Jon and I don't care that hes big but I do care that he looks like my because's hubby so I don't know what to do about that I mean I want to tell him but the last time I told him some thing bothered me about him he got all gay about it.

prob 4. Jon's ALLOT different then me but at the same time where allot alike as well so pretty much this is just a question not really a prob but do you think opposites attract ?

Prob 5.I am completely scared to move in with him not cause of him but just because its new and we aren't dating and I haven't seen him in like 2 years I've just kept in contact with him. and I don't know if I should get a one or a 2 bed room I am kinda thinking one and just keep him on the couch or a air mattress for a while because 2 is a little much and I'm gonna be paying for every thing at first till he finds a job.

so any ways those are my questions please help me out thank you so... much to those of you who help me out.

Answered by angelfire2708 on Jul 29, 2009, 07:30AM
7802 answers

So which of these guys is the one you were asking questions about?

:) Answered by lovebug16 on Jul 30, 2009, 06:15AM
606 answers

both of them

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