I need some help real bad

I ASKED MY EX BOYFRIEND THAT BROKE UP WITH ME NOT TOO LONG AGO IF HE STILL LOVED ME AND HE quot;SAID I DONT KNOW ANYMOREquot; AND THEN I ASKED HIM IF HE EVER DID AND HE SAID quot;YEAquot;...WELL HE TOLD ME A LONG TIME AGO TAHT NO MATTER WHAT HE WOULD...

ALWAYS LOVE ME AND THERE WOULD ALWAYS BE A SPECIAL PLACE IN HIS HEART FOR ME...WELL I FOUND OUT TODAY TAHT HE MIGHT BE DATING SOMEONE ELSE...I LOVE HIM SO MUCH...I CALLED MY EX THAT I DATED LAST YEAR AND I HAD NOT TALKED TO HIM FOR LIKE 9 MONTHS BUT I CALLED HIM FOR SOME ADVICE ON WHAT I SHOULD DO...WELL I CALLED HIM BEFORE I FOUND OUT THAT MY RECENT EX MIGHT HAVE ANOTHER GIRLFRIEND AND HE TOLD ME TO KEEP TRYING...I DONT KNOW WHAT I SHOULD DO WHETHER I SHOULD CONFRONT MY RECENT EX ABOUT THIS OR IF I SHOULD KEEP TRYING TO GET HIM BACK OR IF I SHOULD JUST GIVE UP ALL TOGETHER...IT HURT MY SO BAD WHEN HE SAID THAT HE DIDN#039;T KNOW IF HE STILL LOVED ME...BECAUSE I KNOW THAT I#039;LL LOVE HIM NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS TO US...I JUST WANT HIM BACK...HE MADE ME A BETTER PERSON AND MADE ME TOOK A BETTER LOOK AT LIFE ITSELF...THE FIRST TIME I LOOKED INTO HIS EYES I KNEW TAHT I WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR HIM...CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME....PLEASE

You said: quot;HE MADE ME A BETTER PERSON AND MADE ME TOOK A BETTER LOOK AT LIFE ITSELF...quot;
** if this is true then is is something you will take with you for the rest of your life. And something to be grateful for even if it doesn#039;t work out with old boyfriend.

You said: ASKED MY EX BOYFRIEND IF HE STILL LOVED ME AND HE quot;SAID I DONT KNOW ANYMOREquot;
** A person knows if they love someone or not. I would say his feelings have changed for you and he 1. doesn#039;t know how to say it to you. OR 2. he wants you to stay interested while he experiments with another. OR BOTH.

You said: quot;I DONT KNOW WHAT I SHOULD DO WHETHER I SHOULD CONFRONT MY RECENT EX ABOUT THIS OR IF I SHOULD KEEP quot;TRYING TO GET HIM BACK OR IF I SHOULD JUST GIVE UP ALL TOGETHER...
**You must know this somewhere inside you and that#039;s why you are feeling so desparate. There is nothing you can do to MAKE him like you again. Nothing. It is completely out of your control.

So the only thing left to do is to work on you. Take care of yourself, be kind to yourself right now. Be the best person you can be. Sounds lame, I know. But now you are not a twosome, you can concentrate on just you.

Extra advise: When I hear someone say quot;I love him so much, I can#039;t live without him,quot; I cringe. You didn#039;t say that, but came close.

You can#039;t live without air. There is no choice involved. It is pure NEED. You need air.

If you think you can#039;t life without someone that is not love, because it implies no choice, and no choice means pure need--like air.

And real love involves a choice. In that you can live without this man who you love. But you choose to live with and love this man.

And men chafe at being NEEDED like AIR where no choice is involved. It#039;s too heavy. It#039;s too insecure. It#039;s not strong, like love. It#039;s not strong like choice.

Good luck and blessings

ok i saw this article for getting your ex back on a website and it seemed pretty logical.. the first thing it said is your ex needs space right now, u have to stop pushing them to come back because they will keep pulling further away, what you need to do right now is stay away from them as much as possible for the next month. this is crucial bc every time you see them you are likely to act needy and vulnerable, which are VERY unattractive to your ex, after you take a month off, your emotions will be less heightened and you can finally think somewhat clearly and he may have started to miss you. the next step after that, dont act like you need him, bottom line, guys want wat they have to work for, telling him you love him will let him know he holds all the power and that is unattractive. i hope this helps..

if he is dating another girl, give up. Dont be the girl that breaks up a relationship. If he finds that he still loves you he will come back. But why would you want someone back that left you for another girl? its your call. Im in a similar situation but my boyfriend didnt break up with me for another girl. He broke up because he got jealous. so you really have to think if you want to be with him and if he will want to be with you.