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Hey, I need Some Help Me and My Mom Got into this Huge Fight!! And Ever since That I havent Been Able to Talk to her properly.. Like Asker For Help With Stuff and telling her My Feelings About Stuff.. What Do you think I should do.. because Im Like Always Having Flash Backs Of What Might Happen Like If I tell her She Might Get Mad At Me And Stuff like That... I know It Might Sound Weired Like Telling your mom everything but I Only Need Help With Only some Stuff.. because My friends Dont really Give that Great Of Advice... please Help ..
just say your sorry and you miss her...it doesn't matter who's 'fault' it is, arguments can always be stopped, just by one person...it takes two to fight...
you really should sort this out, honest!! my mum and I fight ALL the time, and I'm 31! and it took me 29 years to learn the word sorry, especially if I think I'm right...but normally, if I say sorry and explain why I said what I said, she backs down too and then she apologises...I hate saying sorry because' it's like admitting I'm wrong, even when I don't think I am! but normally an argument isn't necassary, it never helps...
what did you argue about? try and work out WHY you reacted ther way you did, and she react the way she did, then you'll have a better reason for wanting to sort it out...
but if you miss her, just say sorry, she's your mum, I'm a mum, but I can always admit if I am wrong to my kids...wierd I can say sorry to them, but the word struggles to come out of my mouth to MY mum!!??
Try to forget that the fight ever happened. Go to your mom and talk to her about what happened-try to sort out the problems that led you into the fight in the first place. If you can't do that, tell her that you love her, you feel bad about the fight and you want things to be the way they were again. Goodluck! God bless you & your mom!
I think you should write her a letter - get all your thoughts/feelings/hopes/dreams together - let her know exactly how you feel - you want the closeness back - she's the only mother you'll ever have - apologize if you need to...I wish you the very best !!
My mom passed away and trust me its not worth holding on to grudges
life is short. she won't be around forever so just get over it.
when I figure it out...I'll let you know.
your mom won't get mad.. I just know it
