I need help plzzz

okay this boy like me and I have a boyfriend I told him that at first I liked him I think he coo but now I don't I told him that am not feeling him as much as your feeling me I mean your a cool dude but I just want use to be friend he said that he...

understand but he comes over my house everyday and night he calls me all the time he tells my mom he wants to take me to the movies and I don't know if I should go he tells me that am pretty all the time and he likes what he see that's why he like me he calls me his boo I don't know if he like me for me or the way I like I need help what should I do I love my boyfriend who's in jail and the bull is saying what he going to do for you his locked up I says nothing right now but when he get out his going to be there for me treat me like a queen he says am here for you now you making me like you more and more I told him once nicely that I don't like him and I just want to be friends now I don't if I want to be his friend now he won't leave me alone what should I do help please thank you!!!

ask him if he understands your feelings for him. and if he doesn't try your best to explain them to him. it may hurt, but it's how you feel, and he needs to accept that. that's the best I could give you. Good Luck!

tell him that you LOVE your man and 2 back off... when your man get out?

he will be able to provide for his stuff and he can always get a job always...

How long until your boyfriend gets out of jail? Do you and your boyfriend have mutual friends (as in, friends who know both of you as a couple)?

If your boyfriend is in jail for a VERY long time (I'm talking like 7-10 years or something), then you'll have to be realistic that you're young and you can't really wait for someone that long in your best years. I know the best of us will try to keep the relationship going, but you'll have to discuss with your partner (I'm sure you visit him in jail?) on how it's going to be done, or if it's possible.

However if it's for not too long, I know it's hard but you'll pull through it if you both really put the effort into keeping in touch with each other.

As for this new guy bugging you, there's really NO place for him right now in your life. You have a boyfriend, full stop. A relationship should be respected. A guy who doesn't respect that you're in a relationship is obviously trying to snatch you away from it so that he could have you for himself. It's selfish. Don't buy the BS he's telling you, he's only trying to convince you that he's better than your boyfriend. Your boyfriend can't fight for his relationship now, so YOU will have to.

Tell him to respect your relationship with your boyfriend. Tell him that you only see him as a friend, and there is no chance for him to go out with you. Tell him that you would appreciate it that he doesn't call you his boo and all the other soppy thoughts he thinks about you. Tell him not to call you so often, because you don't want to give other people the impression that you're being unfaithful to your boyfriend. Tell him to back off a bit, and be more respectful.

well being 18 or younger its hard to beleive you have a boyfreind whos already in jail
hopefully your not hanging around with the wrong kind of people
however to answer your question
obviously this guy likes you, and I dont think he realises that you dont
even though you have a boyfreind, he doesnt seem to care
and it sounds like hes trying to win you over and distact you from your boyfreind
you need to have a talk with him tell him
listen, I have a boyfreind. I know you like me, however I dont like you in the same way. all we can do is be friends, all we can have is a freindhip, it wont go any further than that...you need to understand that im taken and I love boyfreind.

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Yeah you should tell him again that the way he is acting after you already told him how you feel is not very respectful of your feelings. Ask him if he understands what you really mean by I don't like you. Explain to him that you are his friend and thats it and if he cannot accept that, then he needs to leave you alone. It's not being mean, its just getting away from the unadaptable. And you accepting his behaviour isn't doing anything to help the situation. There needs to be a clear break-off for this to end. And if that means you have to stop being his friend, then thats what is best for you and your boyfriend, and it its what needs to be done if he can't get it after you explain it again. You may not like it, but you must do what is best. But like I said, give him another chance to change his behaviour.

If it was me I would tell him again and if he still's don't get it then I would stop talking to him and if he see's that I don't want him around anymore than maybe he would get lost and if that don't work just tell my mom,that's what I would do hope I could help.

he needs to respect your decision