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I need help making the first move

Asked by laxerdude 11 months ago, 1 answer.

I recently met a girl and we have been hanging out for the past week. After school I would go to her house. She is a senior. We both really like eachother. When I leave her house she texts me when I get home say,why havent we hooked up yet? and I would...

reply with somethin glike, yeah thats kinda wierd but I will make it all better or something. Theres only one problem. I am scared to make the first move. Like I have done it many times but I feel really awkward when I do it.

Please help me with making the first move..

Lame! Answered by yummeh on Dec 03, 2008, 09:47PM
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Your first move should always be friendly and soft. You need to find a good setting. Her house is perfect seeing as it is quiet and you two can have some privacy. Touching the hand can be incredibly seductive (a lot of girls I talk to say this). So maybe if the opportunity arise, just place your hand on hers and maybe hold onto it or even caress it softly. Eye-contact is an imperative and you need to be confident. This tends to be the most awkward part, but you need to distance yourself from the negatives and remember that this is the first step towards something really positive.

Take some time just before making your move to calm yourself and get your mind-set right. I'm quite sure this girl wants to kiss you, haha. If you can give a soft smile and a sense of safety and warmth, when you lean in, she will do the same. Hope that helps buddy happy!

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