Q: What if I love him and he hates me?

I haven't loved anyone this way before...He's cute, funny, loving, and I am in love with him. His name is Casey. He means the world to me but im just invisible. He knows I exsist...I mean we used to get in huge arguements but that was in the past. When he found out that I liked him everything changed. He never talks to me and I try but I am to scared to talk a lot or make a fool of myself and I cant even give him a hug. I mean I catch him looking at me sometimes but I dont know if he likes me or not. I mean everything is so weird. Were not even like friends but I love him. I am in the 7th grade and I know your thinking no she doesnt love him shes to young but really this is the biggest problem ever. I love Casey. I can give advice about it I just cant take it. I mean I try to find topics to talk to him about its just they wont come out. I have no idea what to do anymore. Its just he always says he doesnt like me in that way and I understand that but I cant handle even walking away from him...I mean I want to tell him I love him but I can just IMAGINE what would happen then. Its so hard. I need some serious help please. I need to know how to get over him, or tell him how I feel, or what I should do!! Oh aand I also tried to play hard to get..with out looking at him and everything...but I CANT do that!! Its so hard not to look at him...seriously.

A: I'm on the opposite end of the stick... I'm a guy, and I love this girl named Kylee... I'm pretty young too, I'm only 14, but I'm sure of it. She can make the wierdest faces, and she always makes me laugh... She has this really wierd smile, too, like whenever she does it, her eyes squint up for some reason! She's also really foul - mouthed, a real rebel... We have just about everything in common, too... I don't know what to do, because she says that she hates me, but she doesn't act like it at all... She's still really friendly and stuff, and I don't understand why. Please help me...
mr_cool • about 2 years Ago
A: I think you should write him a note, or call him. Just straight out tell him that you like him. But dont say that you love him, because it might freak him out a little haha. Like seriously, what have you got to loose?? The worst thing that could happen would be for him to say that he doenst like you back, and then you would need to focus on getting over him... but I think its worth the try. You will hate yourself if you dont and you will always be wondering, "but what if..." Never pass up an opportunity :) go for it girl! good luck! <3
brownieex3 • about 4 years Ago
A: @ Morgan, still love him @ Mr Cool, idk know to tell ya. wait for morgan to respond
Micah Moore • 28 days Ago
A: Oh god, i feel the same way. We were never friends but i had secret crush on him and no one knew.Soon he faund my diary and found out ALL i feel for him. Now he ignores me.I have no chance becouse e is kind of famous and everyone likes him and i am invisible...I just try to get over him.U can tell him what u feel on skype or fb or what ever u use for online chat or u can send him note. U have nothig to loose
Kipramatsa • 12 months Ago
A: Oh god, i feel the same way. We were never friends but i had secret crush on him and no one knew.Soon he faund my diary and found out ALL i feel for him. Now he ignores me.I have no chance becouse e is kind of famous and everyone likes him and i am invisible...I just try to get over him.U can tell him what u feel on skype or fb or what ever u use for online chat or u can send him note. U have nothig to loose
Kipramatsa • 12 months Ago
A: I know exactly how you feel. I'm going through the same thing. except, I'm in ninth grade, and the guy I like, Cody, is in 10th grade. last year, he dated one of my friends, and I got REALLY jealous. and I did some bad things, and now he well, straight out hates me. people say that he doesnt hate me, but I doubt it. I'm in love with him, and I just told my best friend the other night, she freaked. the thing is, if you really love him, go for it, he might love you too, you never know.
alittleinsecure • over 2 years Ago
A: Don't what ever you do make him feel bad. It makes you feel worse and then he deffinately won't speak to you ever again :'( I love you Anthony Martin I don't think I'll ever be able to get over you. I miss you.
charisjennings • over 2 years Ago
A: Me and Gavin were really good friends, but now when he talks to me, instead of being kind and friendly as he used to, he is cold, like he doesn't want to speak to me :'( We were really good friends, and I never even told him I love him
widdies • over 2 years Ago
A: same here! love at first sight(at least for me)he was different with all the guys I've met,I wrote him a text on his mobil to tell him that I was falling in love and since then every thing changed,he just completly ignores me!!! that's fine.just love him wish him well stay away from him and move on.
fau • over 2 years Ago

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