Long distance trust and jealousy problems

My boyfriend and I live about an hour and a half away from each other. And he has trusting,anger,and jealously problems! He wasnt like this in the beginning of the relationship. Since I go to college and he works, he has in his mind that I am talking to other guys at my college and im not! As much as I tell him I love him and hes my one and only and that I dont want anyone else, he still thinks im cheating and accuses me all the time.
Whenever I get out of my class I immediately call him, if im a couple minutes late he thinks im talking to guys. The other day this girl in my class I talk to, parked close to me and we got out of class and we were just walking to our cars and I didnt call my boyfriend because I was talking to her and he called me and started yelling and saying who are you with??? Why didnt you call me??? I told him what I was doing and he didnt believe me and said 'you know what its over' and hung up. I didnt call back until I got to my car, because I didnt want to yell in front of my friend. Things like this happen all the time.
Another thing- I go to college and I have a car but im only supposed to use it for school and my parents pay for everything that I have or want , I dont even have a job. But my boyfriend has 2 cars that need to be fixed and for the past 6 months he has been saying im going to fix them, he even bought some parts and then gave up on his truck and started working on his other car. I dont like to tell him anything because he gets sooo madd. He isnt violent at all he just cant control his anger. Well since he cant drive his cars he expects me to drive down there(he gives me gas and takes me out and I appreciate that). I usually go every weekand and stay all day and come back at around midnight. My parents are really strict and dont like this, but they have no choice because I go anyways. My mom now is starting to say sh*t about me going everyweekand and is now making me feel guilty and saying that I dont spend time with her anymore. I dont know what to do im so confused. My boyfriend is the best except when he gets mad. He even knows he treats me bad and admits he cant control his anger. He doesnt believe in anger management or couples counseling or anything like that. I love him and he loves me. But I just dont know what to do. Does anyone have anything in mind??? Please help I dont want to loose my love

talk to your boyfriend bout it. and if he doesnt trust you then why are you even in a relationship with him. relationships are bout love, honesty, and keyword:TRUST!!! and your mom probably just misses you like hell rite now.

im not sure. I havent been in a realtionship yet

You need to start taking charge of YOUR own life. Why are you letting him dictate who you can and cannot talk to? You have the freedom to do what you want, and be what you want! His behavior is only going to get worse!
If you allow someone to have control over you, it only shows your lack of self-worth. Controllers have little concern about the quality of their partner. Their concern is control and manipulation. You have your life and career ahead of you. Maintain control of your life. If he’s not mature enough to accept your independence and respect you, move on with your life.

The basic qualities of a healthy, loving relationship include:
*respect
*trust
*honesty
*fairness
*equality
*good communication

Get a backbone, and tell him> “To love you is to stay out of your control. I’d rather have no relationships than relationships that inhibit who I am.”

tell him he needs to learn to trust you and control himself. all good relationships are based on one thing, and that's trust. if you don't have that you have nothing. he needs to control himself, it's totally unreasonable for him to yell at you like that if he cares about you. he shouldn't do that at all ever!!! if he is treating you like that he doesn't respect you and he isn't fair to you and there is no communication. to your missing 4 out of 6 things a good realationship needs.
and your mom just feels likes he's taking you away from her. she'll cool off don't let her guilt trip you but spend time with her. hope it works out!

tell your boyfriend that he needs to trust you and your not cheating on him and that you love him and always will