I need help about my relationship..

Well at the beginning of the year I started to like this boy who was known as the player of the 9th grade but I thought he was different. So a couple of months after that we started to become intrested in each other and we passed notes in class and stuff like that and after he found out that I loved him he acted different but a couple of days later he told me he felt the same even thought I knew he didn't. So we didn't hardly talk after that then I found out that he said he wanted me to go to his church but only to see his girlfriend and I think it's horrible, I don't know what to do, he's the only boy I ever loved and I still love him...what should I do?

Stop loving him. Youre young single, and your whole life is ahead of you.

Are you going to ruin it because of one boy that does not even love you back?

Okay, once again you're only young once! I've gone through something much similar and I'm older so I've experience more in life and I've learned one thing...Guys like that don't change! Once you're a player, you're always like that until you're grown and married and mature. If the guys having sex and he's a freshman, then he's after one thing! And yes, you may be in love with him, but it seems like you're probably more into your own image of him than what he really is. I'm sayin that because it's what happened to me. I liked a guy from 5th grade until 10th and thought I was so in love with him, and then I finally saw him for what he really was, and realized that all the bad things about him I let go right through my head all those years. I just saw him for something he wasnt and thought I was in love with him, but I was really in love with what I wanted him to be. So do yourself a favor and allow yourself to see the jerk that lied to you and got a girl pregnant. THAT'S WHO HE REALLY IS! Good luck, and if this came off harsh I apologize. I don't want you to make the same mistake I did and get hung up on a jerk for longer than you have to!

Trust me - you are not in love with this yahoo. You sound to be more infatuated than anything. Don't put too much stress on yourself trying to figure out what is wrong with you and how to keep this creep around. The reason he bolted when you said you loved him is because he doesn't love you, he just thought he could "play" you and didn't bet you'd fall like that. Ignore him, if he starts to get friendly again, he's a true jerk and better off back in the shallow end of the pool, face down.

Trust me - you are not in love with this yahoo. You sound to be more infatuated than anything. Don't put too much stress on yourself trying to figure out what is wrong with you and how to keep this creep around. The reason he bolted when you said you loved him is because he doesn't love you, he just thought he could "play" you and didn't bet you'd fall like that. Ignore him, if he starts to get friendly again, he's a true jerk and better off back in the shallow end of the pool, face down.

I would honestly say to you that he wasn't worth it. Don't worry you can due better than him. I am older then you I think I am 24 and it doesn't get easier.