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Is it too soon to have sex with him?

Asked by mariachitown 4 months ago, 9 answers.

Im only with my boyfriend a couple of weeks but I really really want to have have sex with him and so does he ... I have had it before before but he hasnt ..
Is it too soon ???

Answered by angelfire2708 on Jul 04, 2009, 02:25PM
7798 answers

It is WAYYY too soon? Whats your hurry? What happen to the other boy you had sex with? Sex doesnt prove anything Hun, it only complicates a dating relationship!

If you want to win a guys heart, do not sleep with him immediately. An honest man will tell you that if you have sex with a girl on a first date, you may enjoy it, but you are almost certain not to want to date her because you were simply too easy. Men are hunters, they enjoy the chase, and the longer it goes on, the greater the respect and the more likely you will win his heart. If you simply want sex then fine, but if you want a relationship, hold off. Besides, dating relationships arent about sex!!

When the physical part of the relationship races ahead of everything else, it can almost become the focus of the relationship, and they're not then developing all of the really important skills like trust and communication and all those things that are the key ingredients for a healthy, long-lasting relationship.

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Answered by sexylilme on Jul 04, 2009, 01:07PM
191 answers

Im 15

Answered by trixie101 on Jul 04, 2009, 01:03PM
75 answers

depends...
but I think you shuld wait cause a lot of guys juss want sex and experience...
so I think you shuld wait
hope that helps...

Answered by lindseyjoi on Jul 04, 2009, 01:04PM
27 answers

wow!! How old are you?

Answered by nazneen on Jul 04, 2009, 01:37PM
13 answers

Hey... Don't do it
It's too early, a couple of weeks is nothing! I don't think so it's a good idea, you should wait.
I agree with Trixie101 that some guys just want sex and experience and when they get what they want, they just vanish!!

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Answered by lolipoplover on Jul 04, 2009, 01:46PM
7 answers

okay, you shouldnt do it.. what if you turn up pregnat? then what s going ot happen?

he will probaly leave and you should both wait...

Answered by thegirl09 on Jul 04, 2009, 04:21PM
7 answers

Okay. First off don't do it if you aren't in love. If you are then you need to talk and have oral sex a few times before you do the real thing. Take it slow Oral sex is all me and my boyfriend have had because we are waiting till I can stay the night with him and we can make it romantic because it's going to be the first time for both of us. And maybe it isn't your first time but his deserves to be special. Good luck![:

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