He never makes me orgasm

Horse Asked by prettysoutherngal about 1 year ago, 3 answers.

I've been with my boyfriend two years and I've barely ever cum he always gets off really quick hes the only guy I've been with and I just want it to be better any advice

Answered by eyeball16 on Sep 08, 2008, 08:08PM
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maybe youre not ready? or youre not actually in love? orr birth control sometimes affects that. or you need more foreplay, and lube, try that! I used to have the same problem, and lube and more forepaly helped, especially the dirty talk . and tell him to stop masturbating somuch so he doesnt go so fast

Satan's Little Helper (threadless design) Answered by mysterywolf on Sep 08, 2008, 09:10PM
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Your boyfriend needs to be a better lover. There needs to be a lot of foreplay, and lube if required. For once, get him to make it all about you. Get him to pleasure you and put all his attention to your body (touching, kissing, masturbating, etc), until you cum.

He's being a little selfish at the moment and quickly getting himself off and not really caring if you do or not.

First, he should practise lasting longer through controlled masturbation. This may take awhile. Then, he should learn how to put your orgasm first before his. This is a good general rule that most males follow. This is because women take longer to 'warm up' during foreplay than men. They also continue feeling aroused after an orgasm whereas men usually get over the feeling right after they ejaculate.

lens flare Answered by captainassassin on Sep 08, 2008, 09:15PM
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There is a large percentage of women who cannot climax during normal intercourse, for various reasons. There is also a large percentage of men who don't know what they're doing, usually for just one reason.

You should definitely talk to him, and find out if he's willing to experiment with you, to discover the best way to help you climax.

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