How to help someone you love make the right choice?

what do you do when you love someone so much and you try 2 influence their life as much as you possilily can and they do not look up 2 u?what do you do when that same person makes a mistake and you feel their pain, and you want 2 change their situation...

sooo much but its too late?what do you do when that person is faced with a decision that will be with them for the rest of their life and you can do nothing 2 ease the pain that choice is going to cause

wow! Sounds serious!!
um ok yeah it's so ok to help people out!
That you love or care about someone so much that u'd do anything 4 them!!
Kinda know how you feel
and then when something goes wrong with that person and it feels like it's happening to you too!!
and it really does depend on the question that they have to answer!
Like if it's an ok one or a bad one!!
If you fell like you can trust me or that you won't more of my advice then you can comment me!!

PRAY!

You can't control another person. You can make things worse by trying...

But if you have any kind of faith in God at all, you can turn the situation over to Him.

I don't mean tell God what to do. Trust Him and this person to work it out between themselves.

It's not easy to let go, but it's worth it...

Melissa, you sound like a very compassionate, caring person. It's very very hard to just stand by and watch someone wreck their life, isn't it? But if you know that you've done all you can to help, you don't have any choice but to let them go, and be there to pick them up when they fall over.