I need advice here

I am a gay 18 yr old guy who is in a relationship with a 13 yr old boy. we havent had sex yet but I feel it is not the right time to do that since he is still developing. but he keeps pushing me to have sex with him because he says its family tradition...

that he and all his family members lost there virginity at 13. but for me I dont like that so called tradition. I am stuck. should I end my relationship with the 13 yr old because he is a minor and I am 18 and considered as a adult. or should I stay with him? because I do not want to get caught and I am aware of what is going to happen to me. I am very concerned because I have tried everything to break up with the kid and nothing worked. he is too emotionally attached. and we been together for a month and a week. and my love for him is kind of numb now because of the age difference. any advice would be very much appreciable. my life is at stake here.

You should stick with what you know...what will happen to you if you're caught.

Tell him NO, just because he wants to doesn't mean that you have to. And what a family tradition to have...can you imagine sitting around the table at dinner talking about losing your virginity when you're a 13 year old child? That's disgusting.

Honestly, I think you need to end the relationship. Think about yourself (this is an okay time to be selfish), you're life is the one at risk.

umm... man your 18 hes 13 thats a little bit creppy I mean im also 18 and gay ok I could never imagine dating a 13 year old boy thats like close to pedaphile stuff not to put you down sorry if I did ... but end it trust me find someone your age

I meant 19 year old