How can I get an emo boyfriend?

okay I like the whole emo thing with the boys emo hair and stuff but I dont know anyone that is emo and I am scaryed of talking to people and I think I mite have social phoibiea or whatever but I want an emo boyfreind really bad lol I am desprate but I want some one who I can talk to and stuff. butn I dont know how to get one. I never had a boyfreind before and I am afaird I will never find some one and if I do I dont want to be like 33 when I find some one for the first time I only like emo or scene boys

Hmmm...
You shouldn't be so afraid to talk to people. I know it's scary to stand up and speak to a stranger, but know this. It's the same way for everyone. I'm probably the most shy person I know! But I know when I have to be responsible and stick up for myself, or ask for help.
And as for the entire 'emo' thing, today it is just a style. Most guys that dress like that aren't really emotional, they just do it for looks. Plus, you want a guy who is strong. And that will protect you no matter what happens. Not someone who prefers to cry and cut themselves because of something that happened.
Try this. Try opening yourself up to others. I know it's hard, and it'll be uncomfortable. But what's the very worst that could happen? Sure, people can be mean. People can turn you down, or not accept you. But that happens to everyone. But do keep in mind that not all people are like that. A lot of strangers are very welcoming, and understanding. Everyone is on the same boat.
As for the boyfriend, you will find him when you least expect it. You usually find the right guy, when you're not looking for him. So slow down, practice opening up to others. Be yourself (never lie about who you are. You're already amazing I bet!)
Think positively... Tell yourself that you're going to find him, or that he will find you. Imagine it every night, and he will come. I promise.

: ] Lady

Lady6289 is right.. most people want to be freindly towards strangers and folk alike.. AND you will find someone when you least expect it... and also don't rush into anything / anyone your not comfortable with... Mr right will eventually come along! Teasing the guys is a great confidence booster, and they probably won't know how to take it either (yet)!

Be cheeky, smile, and let yourself go a little (have fun!).. Get any mates to help you tease some of the guys you might like, but keep your eyes equally open to the ones that you might not notice as 'hot'.. A guy will always end up being caught looking over at you if you watch carefully. That means (generally) that they're interested in you!

The sporty type are not neccesarily the 'strong' guys either! See if you can find out who has similar interests to you (boys) or ask what they did over the weekend. It's a great way to start a conversation..

Good luck!

Matt!

I don't see the point of wanting a person simply because of their current fashion sense. I guess that makes you kinda shallow...

yeah, MOST Emo, type of guys are hot!
I know why you are wanting a guy...but we should not want a emo guuy for his fashion...so any one will work for me as long as they love me back for who I am.

I totally agree with lady6289 and mattz_adv.

I agree with all of the above. im not talkative AT ALL. ^,,^; I usually just give a light nod or a quiet hello. and yes you shouldnt want somebody because you like their fashion. *I really shouldnt be talking XD * but hey I feel ya. I want an emo boyfriend too. but I also want someone who will love me for being me. not just because im emo too, or because I dress cute. and just stop looking and take your mind off it. he will come around when you least expect it ^,,^