How can I get a boyfriend?

How can I get a boyfriend without being a slut? I'm fat and ugly but THERE IS WORSE! how can I get a guy to see that?

honey first of all if that's what you think of u, then that's what people will see you like. I'm very sure your a great girl and any guy who wants to use you for sex is really their loss and you should really know you deverse better. and the last thing you should feel like is needing a guy. the right one will come along in right time. just be patient and give it time.

Your 'name' is lowselfesteem1013- so clearly you don't have much confidence, but honey that's what guys are attracted to! You're not ugly! If your weight bothers you, eat healthy and exercise a little more- but at the end of the day being comfortable in your own skin is what's sexiest to a guy (or to guys who aren't so shallow you wouldn't want to be dating them anyway). Recently, I gained some weight- I'm only 5'6' but I weigh 145. I know I could stand to lose some weight, but I also know I'm beautiful and my fiancee still thinks I'm wonderful. It's hard to find a guy like that, but trust me, it'll happen. For now, remember you don't need a guy to feel good about yourself! Boyfriends are nice, but so is not having to worry about relationship issues! Good luck

if you are yourself a man will see that. Baby girl, there are a lot of men out there that LOVE your body type. Just because you're not what the media says is beautiful, and what the media portrays as attractive don't mean Jack... if you talk to a lot of guys, and become friends first because thats how see the person inside. and instead of the first thing you say is I have low slef-esteem or your fat or ugly, you should act like the most confident girl in the room. whether you feel that or not. Confidence is Key, you don't have to feel like that, but put on a front, and guys see OOOH she looking good, she has a nice attitude and likes herself, ima like her too. Hope that helps, Good Luck!!