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ok well...I cant really talk to and e one else bout this but...I met this guy a couple years ago and we started talking and we got together...we were together for like...6 months...then I started going to the lake with my family..and I never invited him because my dad was strict on guys and I wasnt ready for my dad to meet him..my dad just thinks of me as his little girl. but anyways...he started talking to this other girl...then I guess he thought we broke up and startin dating her...and I was really upset because I was figuring he cheated on me..but that wasnt the case..he had just assumed we broke up...he's been with this girl for a little over a year now...but we still kinda talk..and "mess around"...I miss him so much and every other guy, when im not with them im just like..whatever..thats his loss..but hes different. I've been holding on to him ever since hes been with this girl and I dont know if I should just give up or keep trying...he told me he still likes me but hes just confused..his girlfriend doesnt like me at all because she knows we've had sx and still talk. which in understandable...but I still love him with all my heart and as much as I want to stop thinkin about him...I cant! **so should I give up...or keep trying???
It takes 2 people to love.Your ex does NOT love you. He is just using you for sx, and playing on your emotions! If you think that by sleeping with him is going to make him leave his gf hun, you are so wrong! I mean hes been with her for over a year, and you arent any closer to getting him, besides, making love, and having sx are two totally different things! Don't lower your morals and continue this behavior. For him to "assume" you broke up was just his excuse to start dating this other girl! He couldnt have been all that into you to do what he did! You have to face the fact, that just because he is still sleeping with you, doesnt mean he is going to break up with his gf for you. If that were the case>he would have done it a long time ago!! You are NOT seeing things clearly here. I think you are confusing love with obsession. You need to leave this very bad situation youve put yourself in, because you are only hurting yourself more by hanging on to a lost cause! He has moved on. You need to do the same!
Why is this so hard to see???
You're messing around with a guy who has a girlfriend. He's cheating on his girlfriend, does that not bother you? You still think he's a great person?? Do you think he wouldn't do the same thing to you if YOU were his girlfriend?
Idiot...
