How can i get over him?

well me and this guy (Benji) are like really good friends. well like a month ago he told me that he liked me and I told him I liked him to so we started talking.. but like we go to different schools (hes in high school and I'm in middle school) but we...

talked everyday anyway. well I really have falling for him now and I love him and he thought he loved me to but the other night he couldn't sleep so he started thinking and now he thinks that we shouldn't talk anymore cause it probably wouldn't work out between us since we never see each other hardly besides a couple times a week but he wants to be friends again and says that one day we will talk again he promises. He knows that he broke my heart and he says hes really sorry and now i don't know what to do cause I'm trying to heal my heart but he calls me every night still and i talk to him all the time and it hurts so bad and i don't think I'm ever gonna be able to get over it. what should I do?

well, first off, how old are you? because if your not at least sixteen(yeah i know, if your not yet, it may seem like a long way off) but the relationships people get in before they are sixteen, usually turn out for the worst (especially if long distance, and age difference.) however, you just need to realize that you are young and that there will be other guys, whom you will love even more than benji. just hang around with guys your age, and let things flow for a while before you do anything. broken hears heal with time, and usually get worse if you try to force it to heal. after a month or so, just try to talk to him if you feel you need to , but don't try to push anything. he may still like you, but is worried what people would think because of age difference.

best of luck
homestar_runner3

child please stop the drama if you and this guy just spent some time together then how can you say you are in love. ok if you are in love and it hurts the way to stop the pain is to just start looking for some one else to talk to and stop call him and taking his call until you can deal with it. ok

Ask Benji to please give you some time and space. Stop calling you and torturing you every day. Let him miss you for a couple of weeks and see what happnes. In the meantime try to get your mind on something or someone else. Good Luck Gino