How do I tell him he's a grandfather at 34?

I am 13 and I have a baby she is 1 and my dad doesn't know ... I am going to see him in a few weeks ... how do I tell him he is a grandfather at the age of 34

Well... Just tell him: Dad, I have a baby girl. Her name is "baby's name." I would love for you to see her sometime. I know its not what you probably expected out of me, or to be a grandpa at the age you are now, but this just happened. And I cant take it back. I love her, and I am not going to leave her for my mistake. And just tell him you love him.

Hope I helped! Good Luck...

Seriously? Seriously?

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Seriously?

Hang on... you're 13... you have a 1 year old baby... you had her at age 12... which means you had sex when you were around the age of 11-12? How does that work? Didn't social services get involved? Because you're a minor wouldn't your parents have been informed?

Yeah, I highly doubt a twelve-year-old could have a baby and her parents still have absolutely no idea about it a year later.

Seriously?

So what you reckon xiigzag? Bogus?

OMG thats crazy, but it sounds lk you need help, so I wud just sit him down, and tell him that you have a baby. Tell him that you really love and care for the baby, and you want him to love her as much as you do, and hope one day he can accept your mistake, even if it turned out to be a good thing. It will take time, but if he loves you, he will come around and love the baby too. by the way, if he's 34 and has a 13-year old daughter, he had you when he was 21, so its not like he wasnt young too.

I never even had my period until I was almost 14. Damn.

I would just sit down and tell him the wors ttha tcould happe and is he be upset for a little while .. but hes not going to turn his back.. he will still love you and his granddaughter... good luck

hahaha. ... ha ha

>>>he will still love you and his granddaughter..

I don't know about her father, but I know if MY preteen daughter came home with a baby, I would disown her in just five minutes.

Of course, if I ever had a daughter she would never be stupid enough to get pregnant as a teenager.

Just tell him hey guees what I had a baby duh...

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I lol'd? >_>

wow . so you had a baby at what age >? and I am guessing that you live with oyur mum ? how dod you tell your mum ? I had a hard time telling mum that I wanted to have sex .

wow some of all of your responses are harsh... If what this young lady is saying is true then dont you think she already feels bad enough?? She certianlly doesnt need people critisizeing her when she is asking for advice.. shame on you all!!...The only question I have is how could you have had a baby and your father not known? It takes 9 months of pregnancy and she is 1 years old so thats like a year and 9 months.. have you not seen your dad recently??... Anyways hun I wish you the best of luck and maybe you should just sit down and have a long chat with him from the beggining. Tell him about your life about what led you into the pregnancy how you were feeling inside explain the whole thing and if he doesnt accept it then you dont need him in your or your childs life if he does then it will only make you both all the closer. Do not be afraid, fear keeps us small and though a baby at your young age is not a good idea do not ever be ashamed or regretful of your mistakes because they will make you who are which is a stronger person in the end.

Sweetheart just sit your dad down and tell him everything from day 1. Yeah he might be mad for a while but at the same tyme at least you told him and you don't have 2 worry about keeping it a secret. I'm here if you need me