I'm very picky, do I need to change?

Do I need to change my expectations. I'm an average looking guy but I got balls and im always trying to go after the hottest girl I can find because for some reason they just seem the most desirible to me. I love challange I hate getting someone I know I could control by the end of my finger.

well, ask them out, if they say no, ask someone w/ a great personality whose funny

***im always trying to go after the hottest girl I can find because for some reason they just seem the most desirible to me***

Sounds to me like you're just shallow...

It might help to pick a girl based on her personality, not her looks.

Some people are like that, always going after what they consider the 'hottest thing' but I think it's time to consider the most important aspect of people that iswho they are and not what they look like. Don't always focus on only the looks because as they say: 'All that glitters is not gold'.

captianassassin you did not answer my question at all, how am I shallow if I'm raising my standards on women?? LOL that does not make any sense at all.

If I was shallow I wouldnt be afraid to date fat chicks ever seen the movie Shallow-Hal with Jack Black ring a bell??? yeah thanks for the advice NOT!

***captianassassin you did not answer my question at all, how am I shallow if I'm raising my standards on women?? LOL that does not make any sense at all.***

Nothing you've said so far indicates that you're 'raising your standards' ...I don't even think you fully comprehend what that means.

***If I was shallow I wouldnt be afraid to date fat chicks ever seen the movie Shallow-Hal with Jack Black ring a bell??? yeah thanks for the advice NOT!***

You should probably watch it again. Hal dated a big girl AFTER Tony Robbins hypnotized him into only seeing women's INNER beauty. When you base your so-called 'standards' soley on physical appearance (I.e. hottest girl), that means you're shallow. If you want a complete answer to your thread question:

***I'm very picky, do I need to change?***

You're not picky, you're SHALLOW, and YES, you need to change. And since you responded in the way you did. You're making yourself look shallow AND stupid.

I think you do need to change, looking at what's inside rather than outside.

As a wise friend of mine once said: 'I don't care is she's hot, if she's dumber than a broken toaster, I'm not interested!'

Yeah your real cool Captian trying to pick a fight with someone over the internet LOL

-claps- You accomplished so much good for you man.

I'm not picking a fight, I'm simply answering the thread question, and pointing out that you're WRONG... and proving it.

Everything I've said so far has been accurate, you simply just don't like the answers. If you can't even handle the slightest bit of criticism (another character defect), then don't ask for advice.

And now It seems you're not even able to address your own thread topic. Trying to sidestep it, hmm? You're only proving my point. And now we can add 'immature' and 'unimaginative' to your growing list of character defects.

Care to continue?