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I'm thinking about becoming an escort

best friends Asked by voice5w33t 8 months ago, 7 answers.

I'm 19, a college student, and I cannot find a job. I'm really broke and poor ( I can't even buy new shoes! and my old ones are all moldy...eww). Well I'm struggling really bad. I've been looking for a job for the past two months and everyone knows that...

it is difficult, especially here in GA. I am having no such luck and I am desperate for money. So, I've been thinking about getting into the escort business. I could make a good amount of money, but do I necessarily have to have sex with the people? I mean, I do have a boyfriend. I'll be doing this for me and him and my family cause we are all struggling...badly. This is the last resort. If I don't have some money by the time the term is, I'll be living on the streets. Advice anyone?

Answered by maebee on Mar 18, 2009, 02:20PM
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being an escort is just plain dangerous! you can get killed,raped,or badly hurt. yes you have to preform sex acts 90% of the time. my friend was an escort and quick the day after she got beat and raped by 6 men. go to your local state office they may be able to help you find a job.

jus so tht u kno i m not a fake ... :P Answered by angry_pandit on Mar 19, 2009, 12:24PM
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I was gonna say go for it, till I read maebee's comment, probably me being a guy, gettin hurt never occured to me.

it is a very serious move, even if you are planning, not that its bad, but it will be life altering. how sure are are you about being able to maintain the same emotional bond with your boyfriend after he starts to drag your work in baseless arguments plus you are gonna play huge gamble with your self confidence, escort job is a quick fix I am sure you wouldnt want to do it forever.

I think you need to more creative with your life, I am sure there are ample opportunities around you if you just take notice. every gap is an alternative, if you are ready to play with ego and become a sex worker might as well use the same security in your head and pick up odd jobs which no one wants to do.
* dog walks
* mobile cigg and candy, just like pop corn, its a running business , you can make fortune in parks and public gathering
* learn some skills
* home made food, delivered to your home

just random thoughts, you dont always need money to make money. trust yourself if its that important, you will surely figure a way out.

just trying to show you the other side of the coin, hope it helped, as intended.

cheers !

me and my boyfreind :] Answered by jazlovestoskate (Online now) on Mar 19, 2009, 11:05PM
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heres a bit of advice
little money, shop at opshops
they have both old and new clothing for extremly cheap
you can pick up a good pair of shoes for around $2
somtimes even 50cents
same goes for clothing
if you want to be an escort your boyfreind needs to know about it and agree to it
otherwise youd just be huryting him and the relationship
and to be an escort you need to be 18 or older
if your not, and they take you
the place is illegally operating and probably involved with prostituing girls, drugs and crime
and for jobs, look for places who are hiring or need new workers or
also only do the escort thing if you can live with yourself and if you wont be ashamed of it later on
because money isnt worth degrading yourself for

Answered by lilliandk on Jul 28, 2009, 10:49AM

Go to a local church and ask for help to the pastor. He will help you for sure

Answered by parrotperson on Jul 30, 2009, 07:44PM

The scenario of being beaten and raped by 6 men is possible but very unlikely IF you run your business correctly. LEARN what to do to get good clients. Don't just stand out on a street corner or post on craigslist. IF you research thoroughly first and then have methods in place for both determining the safety of new clients and for getting out of a bad situation should it occur, escorting is relatively safe. Someone posted about a bad experience on this board, but there are plenty of people, and I am one of them, who have NEVER had a bad experience. A lot of people who don't know what they are talking about like to scare people away from things like this.

It is great money, especially at your age. You do NOT need to be a supermodel, there is room for all sorts of women. And it CAN be enjoyable, depending on your personality. You need to think about whether you can handle sex without emotional attachment. If you can, this is a good option to make some money until you learn job skills for a legal career that pays a living. If you can't, you may want to consider sex work that doesn't involve intercourse, such as erotic massage.

Please don't listen to people who don't know what they are talking about. Who knows if the person who posted with the 6 men story is even being honest. If they are, that is an absolute worst case scenario, VERY rare, and can happen to a woman anyway, outside of whether they are escorting. Don't let one possibly true story totally dissuade you.

There are books about how to safely be an escort. You can also research online from reliable sources. You may want to start with an agency, because they will help you get and vet clients. They also may help you with your appearance if you really have absolutely no money and need some new shoes or nice clothes/lingerie/nakeup to start.

If you go out on your own, just make sure you handle your safety first. Always be ready to walk away from any client you have any bad feeling about (this is why junkies get beat up; because they ignore their sixth sense in the quest for fix money). Use online verification services to verify the identity of a prospective client. Try to build up a base of regulars that you've seen before and know are safe. You can also sometimes get referrals from past clients or from other escorts whose specialties are different than yours.

These are all common in the industry. For myself, I've ALWAYS met new clients in public first. It gives me greater peace of mind.

There are also ways of avoiding LE (law enforcement). Incall is actually safer than outcall (common misconception of people who don't know anything about escorting is the other way around) because you control the territory. You can have a friend or boyfriend check on you or espect a call at a certain time. LE is more likely to do stings in their own hotel rooms, set up beforehand, than at an escort's place. Also, you do not want to tell the client the incall location beforehand. Tell him the general area and then call his cell phone just a few minutes before the meeting, to tell him the exact address. That way LE does not have time to set anything up.

These are just a few tips from someone ***who has actually done this***. I think you should take advice from those who know, not those who are merely speculating. If you come back and check this board: You are welcome to ask additional questions and I'll try to answer them to the best of my ability.

Answered by nelly4dust on Aug 03, 2009, 06:41AM

You're in luck, I have just started an escort service and I am looking to recruit women right away. If you are really interested send a picture of yourself including personal details to Fun mail me and I will get back to you as soon as possible. Feel free to visit the website at princessescorts1.com as you will see that this is a new agency. Good luck.

Answered by milfhawaiigirl on Oct 20, 2009, 09:20PM

parrotperson, I'm thinking about doing it too, I have an interview with an agency next week actually. I know that in some cases - most cases - sex will be involved, I also understand that since having sex for money is illegal agencies do not have pricing on the extras aside from the date aspect of escorting. How much is the normal price to charge for these extra services?

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