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I'm so confused

Asked by candy8pple over 4 years ago, 2 answers.

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years and I love him so much. Sometimes I think it's way too much. I do everything for him. For instance, like when he's sleeping in the middle of the night and I hear him coughing I would get up to get him...

water. Or like I would go out of way my way to get him lunch, eventhough I know that if I get him lunch I would not have enough time to get my own lunch. Basically I love him more than I love myself. But he does not seem to feel the same way about me. He never seems interested in my daily life, when I talk about my life he does'nt say anything but when I talk about other people or stuff that has nothing to do with me he seems interested. And also when he makes me cry it doesn't seem to bother him, he just ignores it. I love him so much but I don't feel that he loves me the same way. I don't know what to do, I'm so confused.

Answered by safina on Aug 14, 2005, 01:40PM
4 answers

Sounds too familiar. The kind of guy you are describing sounds like the typical mommas little boy who has had women taking care of him his whole life. Doing his laundry, cooking his meals. Hes not ungrateful he just doesnt realise what housework is, so its not a big deal for him to say thankyou or do it in return. Would he go out of his way to get you lunch? No... because no one ever taught him how to do that. HE LOVES YOU. dont feel that he doesnt. Hes just one of those silent types that thinks his love should be obvious and that he doesnt have to go out of his way to show his love. Hope this is helpful.

sad little me Answered by inuyashagirl95 on Jun 14, 2007, 10:15AM
5 answers

talk to him about how you feel if he dosnt listen then find a way to cope and if you love him that muchand you are not geeting anything back in return talk to him and try to work things out maybe it will all pay off in the end just try to think of how much you love him and he is
WAY LUCKY to HAVE YOU!!!!!! in his life ! hopw it all works out in the end 4 u!

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