How to stop being so self-conscious before oral sex?

He said he's totally willing but I'm just so self concious. Even when we have sex I can never undress in front of him and I turn the lights off. Any advice?

Coming from a girl that allows her boyfriend to go down on her, its honestly not that bad of an idea, and because you've already had sex with him it should be ok for you. If you're still really self-concious see if you can undress in the dark or maybe set on a little lamp and work up to lights if you want. Hope this helps.

Good Luck!

Hmmm just give it some time.. I was like that too but after I got to know the guy a lot better and was with him for years then yeah its a lot easier for me now...

I think you should just go for it maybe use a lamp and work urway up

I think you should just go for it maybe use a lamp and work urway up

I'm not trying to sound rude but I'm curious, how can you have sex with someone when you are not comfortable with them seeing you naked?