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I'm scared to be touched

Asked by icehockeyguy about 1 year ago, 6 answers.

I am 14. I sometimes go round my mate's house, her older brother is in my year and trys to get me horny all the time but I just freak out when he just comes over and starts touching me because I was always taught that its wrong to do it until your older,...

and I'm scared, I want to get some action but it puts me off because he's a sex manic. what do I do? how can I stop freaking out?

Answered by livelaughlove123 on Aug 21, 2008, 02:34PM
342 answers

if you want then let him finger you but... I sugest you find some one that wants you for you not sex

Answered by kirstenjonesxx on Aug 21, 2008, 02:38PM
20 answers

I Advise you Not To do it with him. find Sumone you can trust and some one you love and you want be so nervous I mean I was even a bit nervous losing my virginity becuase I really did love the guy I was wid at the time :D Soo just find some one your comfatble with. maybe give him a hand job let him fingure you in your up for it if your not tell him to f**k off xx

Answered by candycanechild on Aug 21, 2008, 02:47PM
12 answers

Oh my goodness ew! I think it's totally normal to be uncomfortable in these situations when you're 14! If I were you I would hold it off until you're older. I mean not only with him but with anyone.
I know a lot of people who started doing things like that when they were 12, 13, 14, whatever. And it just made things more difficult for them.
But if you do use protection! surprised

Answered by emadkobi on Aug 21, 2008, 05:20PM
31 answers

or just tell your friend that her brother is doing these moves on you and shell tell her parents, theyll teach him a gd lesson

Answered by brutaly4honesty on Aug 21, 2008, 09:47PM
54 answers

yeah tell at least your friend and if you don't feel comfortable around him because he is acting like that then don't. don't be alone with him.
I didn't tell anyone that my new step brother made me feel uncomfortable, and I woke up with him in my bed trying to get my pants off. He is a year younger than me. Trust me other people have had similer experiences.

Answered by xx_honey_bunny_xx on Aug 22, 2008, 03:58PM
124 answers

they live with her mum only she has 3 kids with 3 different guys and isnt a very good parent she leaves us home alone when I'm round there so she can get the shopping and then he makes his move he also m*st*rb*tes in the front room to porn and If I need the loo you have to go through there and you can see him doing it. gross!