I'm scared ..

i'm 13 years old, and i'm scared about having sex, idk when to and i dont knw who to do it with. rite now i'm single but i'm scared to do it when i'm ready if i'll ever be ready. whats the normal age to have sex(lose ur virginityy) want to ask my mom...

but i'm scared to talk to her about it. and i'm scared to talk to anyone about it, and i dont knw y?

Why are you even worrying about sex for? Your young, and when the time is right you will know!! There is NO normal age for sex. Enjoy your teen years doing fun things with your gfs, not getting all freaked out about something that wont happen for awhile!!!

angelfire2708's response was kinda rude. I think if u ask a question u deserve a valid response. u need to do some research about sex, and make sure u r really ready. it can be a very scary situation when u loose ur virginity. if u are properly informed, about what u r doing it shouldnt be nearly as scary. make sure u really love the person u r having sex with, b/c u will be connected to them for the rest of ur life. first time sex is clumsy, and u should make sure to tell ur partner that u r a virgin, it breaks down barriers, and u dont have to worry so much. u have to be very comfortable with this person, and trust them completely. Make sure u use protection, it's so much easy to relax, and enjoy urself, if u r not worrying about unwanted pregnancy, or STD's.

Gurl dont worry about having sex now. You are only in your teen years and dont need to think about that. Too many young girls I know that are 13 to 15 getting pregnant and having kids most on accident because they were to afraid to ask there mom for birth control and they didnt use a condom. Do some research on the internet about sex and everything. Make sure the guy who ever you do it will loves you for you and not for something sexual it would be better to have a guy that loves you be a virgin and possibly find someone who is and not lieing about that. I am only 15 and I have did everything but sex with guys and im not planning on haveing sex for along time. Make sure you are really comfortable with your body and guys bodys and love who for who you are. Dont think you look bad because you prob. arent and your mostlikey a very beautiful lady. Dont worry about haveing sex right away. I have learned to stop myself from going any farther and having sex with guys there is alot of guys I know one being 23 that has said i give you credit for not wanting to do that There is alot of people I know that are girls and guys in there early late teens and early and late 20s and they are proud that they havent had sex ever and they arent planning on it netime soon.

you should do it when you feel the right time is there is not a certin age .and you should talk to someone

you'll know when the time is right...dont let the pressure get to you...what ever age you pick, is the age that is right! (for you)