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Should I keep my baby?

Asked by jami_oyea 7 months ago, 9 answers.

ok im thirteen and im pregant(that sucks)
umm I'm 6 months and have a girl what do you think I should name it??...or shold I keep it??BUT IM ONLY 13 what do I do??

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the fairest in all the land Answered by sikashimmer on Dec 20, 2007, 07:28AM
| 3529 answers.

Well you need some prenatal care ASAP if you haven't already.

I hope you didn't JUST find out at 6 months pregnant.

Contact a planned parenthood clinic near you. They can usually offer services such as WIC, provide pediatric care after the baby is born, provide sexual health care for you and give you resources for living and financial aid. (foodstamps etc)
http://www.plannedpa...

I would look towards indian baby names. Find something with a nice meaning that sounds good. ( a lot of indian names look pretty hard to pronounce, so even modify one.)

Here are some names I like:
Selena
Adrianna
Ariel
Angelique
Anya
Arahanna
Savita
Priti (means Love)
Bindiya

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Answered by irishgirly on Dec 20, 2007, 11:56AM
| 98 answers.

Hay!!! I'm also 13 and I just had twins. I was raped and that is how I got them. What you need is support. From parents, friends, relatives, teachers. and the baby's father. I would keep the baby. I kept both of mine, and although it is a huge responsibility, I love them more than anyone. I have twin girls named Meaghan and Liliana, those are my favorite names for girls, but here are some others that I like:

Jamie
Callie
Aileen
Melissa
Nicole
Emma
Emily

Thunder Robot Answered by funadvice on Dec 20, 2007, 01:43PM

Hey...<3

kizzy
ellie-anne
katina-lou
katie
rosie
sara
miley
jessica
alex
daniella
kerry
kelsey

hopee I helped

xx

This is Me Answered by darkwolfgirl240 on Dec 20, 2007, 10:20PM
| 408 answers.

Dear jami_oyea,

There are a lot of option out there first of all I THANK YOU for keeping your Baby and not having an abortion that is awsome and a rare thing one sees theses days.
There are many wonmen young and old who want childern and can not have them for what ever the reason. Ther are peole out there whom if you choose to give your baby up for adoption would love and care for her just as if she where their own. Some nice couple. They can probably offer her a lot more in life or well out of life then you can right now..as far as money goes...love and emotionally if you keep her she will always know that her mother Loves her and wanted her even though she was so young...it is a tough choice really. Both has its ups and downs...
Go with what your heart tell you and what you think God would have you do. Pray about it.

Good Luck
mmm also talk to your parents
Dark Wolf

Answered by igottaluvme1st on Dec 21, 2007, 06:04AM
| 5 answers.

jami_oyea
Keeping your baby is a HUGE decision. Do you have a good support system at home? Do you have a family that will help you? Babies are so very precious, but lots of work, and if you have a child that has colic, well that can drive you crazy. Are you prepared for getting up several times a night, and losing lots of sleep? Then there is the money part of it all. Babies are expensive. Sweetie, if you have a loving family to help you, then sure. But you are just a child yourself. I am so glad that you do care and love this little baby. Think about this, there are so many people who want babies and cannot have them. You can always leave the option open for a relationship with the adoption agency, so that when the child becomes an adult and wants to find you she can. You can still have a relationship later when you are an adult. You won't be that much older, so think about what great friends you could be. Sweetie, you have a lot of thinking to do. You need to talk with someone close to your age that has a baby. Get some advice from them. They can tell you all about being a mom.

CHEESEEEE Answered by im2ghood4u on Dec 23, 2007, 03:10PM
| 16 answers.

does yur mom know?since you are 6 months pregneant youwill still have to push the baby out...im pretty sure you have built a bond wit her...so I don't know...maybe if you cant handle her than consider adoption or foster until you are ready...

ME BEING SEXY Answered by glow4u on Dec 24, 2007, 09:07PM
| 8 answers.

I THINK YOU SHOULD BECAUSE THE BABY IS ALREADY DEVELOPED, MOVING, FLICKERING HER EYES AND NOT EVEN THAT...YOU NEED TO RESPOND FOR YOUR ACTIONS...MA' YOU ONLY 14:::YOU SHOULDVE THOUGHT ABOUT IT BEFORE YOU EVEN HAD SEX...BUT ITS NOT MY PLACE TO JUDGE YOU...YOU ALMOST GIVING BIRTH SO WHAT I CAN TELL YOU IS GOOD LUCK AND JUST MAKE SURE YOU FINISH SCHOOL...

Hoping to adopt an angel Answered by hopingtoadopanangel on Dec 29, 2007, 08:14AM
| 11 answers.

Hi,

I am sorry that you are in this situation I know it is tough. What do your parents think you should do? If you ever want to talk me email address is Fun mail me I don't know that seems like a really personal question to ask on a question forum. I would love to chat with you though.

Michelle

Answered by atampaking on Feb 27, 2008, 02:01PM
| 8 answers.

THERE ARE MANY OPTIONS HOWEVER THE MORE I LEARN ABOUT MY SITUATION THE MORE I WANT TO INFORM PEOPLE ABOUT A THING CALLED INDEPENDENT ADOPTIONS WHERE YOU ACTUALLY PICK THE PARENTS OF YOUR BABY WITHOUT THE HELP OF AN AGENCY SINCE THERE ARE SO MANY CHILDREN LOST IN THE SYSTEM ALREADY. THIS SORT OF ADOPTION IS WHERE AN ADOPTIVE COUPLE MEET WITH YOU AND HIRE A LAWYER AND THEN YOU JUST SIGN PAPERS BUT ALTEAST YOU GET TO KNOW WHO WILL RAISE YOUR CHILD AND THERE WONT BE ANY GREEDY AGENCY INVOLVED. IF YOU WOULD LIKE ANY MORE INFO ON THIS LET ME KNOW

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