I'm not a virgin anymore

ok so this isn't really a question... I just feel like saying that I'm not a virgin anymore. I'm 15 years old and I planned on waiting until my wedding night, but I was hangin out with my boyfriend and we were messin around, and then we just kept going...

and he knew I wanted to wait and he totally respected it, but he asked and I'm told him I wanted to do it. so we had sex... and I'm not ashamed that I did it either, I plan on being with him forever and I'm glad that he has my virginity... I would never want it to be in the hands of anyone else. I love him, and he loves me... and I can't wait to see him again (probably tomorrow) and have sex again!

p.s. don't worry, we're totally being careful... my brother is 19 and has a son and a baby on the way... we won't let that happen...

Ummm 'Proud?' But just be very careful. Having sex these day is like playing Russian Roulette! And too, everyone have their own opinions on life. But that's not a guarantee that you'll be with him 4ever. Just take care yourself and protect your feelings and love yourself more than anyone. You have your whole life ahead of you.

Check out the song Not A Virgin by Poe. You might just feel like singing it.

Well guess what? I'm a virgin and I'm 20. My boyfriend is a virgin and he's 21. So, congratulations for being a non virgin at 15? Lol.

Wow, I'm glad your so proud. Your on your way to becoming a slut. (: And I'm happy for you, truely. hahahahahhahahahahah ! Sorry if it's harsh. But if you and your boyfriend suddenly have sex all the time Then you will get a bad reputation from it. Especially cause your so happy your not a virgin. A bad rep is not fun. So I'd say just chill out with all the sex, or don't tell everyone. It doesn't need to be publisized. Young girls shouldn't have sex till they're mentally, physically financially ready to take care of a child. Since that's what comes from it. And being 15, I'll go ahead + take a wild guess that you not. And your saying you won't let that happen. Yeah, most teen parents don't intend for it to happen, or else kids your age wouldn't have more kids. Duh. Plus, just because you've had sex won't make him stay with you forever. Ever occur to you that that's just what he wants? Maybe it's not, but you shouldn't think of it as a way to get you more connected.

And seriously think about it, is maybe 30 minutes of pleasure worth 9 months of pain in labor and 18 years of your life raising another human being? I think not.

How rude! Be smart, be safe, and do your research. When people are critical of others, it is because of something they don't like about themselves. Slut is a term they call people that are sexually confident. It is supposed to be negative, but if you remember that the problem lies inside the judgemental person, you can take it as a compliment.

Sex changes a relationship, and for young teens its usually not a good change. Trust me, sex isnt going to make him stay with you.

yes your not a virgin anymore but its not a good idea having your heart set on being witth your guy forever, sure it would be nice but things happen ad you dont want to get super hurt if it dosn't work out just focus on being with him know and the future will take care of itself.

Why would you be proud of that? Especially if you wanted to wait? Respect your body a little more than that babe. God.

jeeze people! I'm proud because I know that he's not just with me for sex. I know you probably think I'm immature because I'm only 15, but I've been through a lot in my life and it has forced me to mature before my age... I know that just because we had sex doesn't mean we'll be together forever, but I say that because we both want to be together forever... trust me, we've talked about this, we both know what we want, and we both respect each other. neither of us want any accidents, so we're being very careful... I know that's not a 100% guarantee, but we are being very, very careful... we love each other and we're doing everything we can to make us work... sure it would've been good to continue to wait, but I felt ready and it felt right... thanks for your concern and all, but I'm doing just fine, and I really don't care if you think I'm a slut. having sex with one guy, and the guy I plan on being with forever, is not a slut... I'm happy, and nothing you say can change it... I love him!

well atleast you dont regret it and you obv ar smart enought not to get preg soo good luck
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Come back here this time next year, and let us know if you are still together.

we will be, so shove it! we just had our 4 month anniversary yesterday, biotch!