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I'm in love with two guys

Asked by hannie over 2 years ago, 4 answers.

Okay, so here's my soap opera story. I'm 17 and was dating this guy for about 5 months we'll call him Bill (pretty creative ain't it?). I had sex with Bill twice but it never crossed my mind that I might get pregnant... I mean.... I'm a teenager... I'm...

invincible! I really really love Bill. But then an old ex that I never really got over came back into the picture after 3 years of not seeing each other. We'll call the second guy Bob (also very creative). Bob was very important to me.. my first love. After talking to him I knew I couldn't give Bill my whole heart so I broke up with him, not to be with Bob, but just to give me time to figure out my emotions. I broke up with Bill about a week ago... he is still SO in love with me. I feel like a bitch. When I'm with Bill I want to be with Bill and all I want is for him to hold me. But when I with Bob I feel the same way towards him.
As if that whole thing wasn't confusing enough I'm two weeks late and I think I'm pregnant. The father will be Bill if I am. I'm only 17... I live in a small town... and my parents will FREAK if I am pregnant. I mean, I grew up being told that sex is evil before marriage and my mother made me read books like, And The Bride Wore White. I don't regret anything. And I'll keep the baby if I am pregnant. I also know I will have to force myself to love Bill and only Bill if I'm really pregnant... so I don't really know what I'm asking... I just need advice I guess. I'm so freakin' confused!

"Should I jump, or not........" Answered by camo on Jan 10, 2007, 01:55AM
23 answers

Well giving you virginity to bill is something special and you can never get back. You must have something more for him if you did. Bob is like that old broom in the corner, you lost it a wile,you found it and its your favorite broom, but its old. Its worn out and no good. If he left once there a good chance he will again.

Me Answered by locoluna on Jan 10, 2007, 03:26AM
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First, wait and work out whether you are pregnant or not. If your not then be with the one you love. If you are you should still be with the one you love, if he will accept the fact you are pregnant but you need to take it one step at a time.

Answered by nastsky40 on Jan 10, 2007, 08:46AM
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you can't force yourself to love and only be with Bill if you are pregnant.But, it would be the right thing to do.If you are 2 wks late, why don't you find out first if you are pregnant, before freaking out about all of this.However, if you think you are, you most likely are pregnant because, us women, have very good intuition and know our bodies.
You have to grow up now, don't worry about your parents, it's your life, not their life, although ofcoarse it will affect them.
You should think about, is Bill going to be able to help you with a baby?Does he even have a job?How are you going to raise the baby?Right now, you should be thinking and working on yourself, find out if you are pregnant, talk to Bill and your parents.Bob, should really be out of the picture until this important part of your life is figured out.
At 17, it most likely will not last with Bill, even if you do have his child, but right now, it's Bill that you should be with.You and Bill will always have a connection, if you are pregnant, but at 17,you have so much more to grow and live, and most likely will be changing your mind several more times until you really know what or who you want to be with.

Answered by bubux007 on Jan 10, 2007, 08:50AM
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Ask them not to be jealous for ech other, even they can be friends, you 3 can be friends, if you can reach this you must not feel like a bitch, even, you may feel like a fairy..

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