What to do if i'm in love with an older married man?

I'm in love with a marired man for almost about three years..and we are having huge age difference..he is married for abt 18 years and having three kids...it seems that he doesn't have any problem with his wife..and sevral times he also admits tha he...

is also in love with me and it wld be difficult for him to leave with out me..we are really close to each other..we share every thing our joy,our sadness, evry thing.the only thing is he can't marry me.we make love capole of times..he make me so complete that I can't describe.he is caring he is loving but I dont know where we going to end? its seems impossible for me to leave with out him..but I also know one thing that we wont get one ever!

Just think how you would feel if it was you with the husband that had a relationship. Plus, even if he did leave his wife, he will eventually do the same thing to you, even if he says he won't and all that bullsh*t. The best thing for you to do would be to find someone else, who isnt married, that way they will only be for you and you wont have to share them with another woman.

I FEEL BAD FOR YOU , CAUSE UNFORTANETLY BEING IN LOVE WITH SOME ONE ALREADY TAKEN IS NOT THE BEST IDEA.

Dear alysa,
Getting older and maturing means that we become to realize that we can't have everything we want. It also means having more empathy...putting ourselves in other peoples shoes. So it sounds as though you may be lacking in both telling us that you are not ready to be in a relationship. This man has decided he would like his cake and eat it too meaning he is keeping his wife no matter what and using you. You've allowed this behaviour from him so he will continue until you decide you are strong enough to tell him how selfish and mean he is. Do yourself a favour and remove yourself from the situation and get some counselling to find out why you've allowed yourself to be used like this.
Sue...good luck

Oh honey you got a drop it
I know that sounds harsh but come on, do you really just want to be the chick on the side?
I mean if it really is love and he is willing to leave it all behind then follow through but just remember he is older and has a past that he cant just leave behind for you.
But if on the other hand he says hey yeah we'll just have an affair well do really want to be runners up
Think about it
=]

aww... if i were u i would end it...
he is cheating on his wife..eh?
and even if he leaves his wife for you, think about his 3 kids, how would they feel?
and what if he leaves his wife,goes for u, marries you, then cheats on you just as he did his wife...then what?
find another untaken guy hunny