I'm confused, i don't want to end it like this! help!

I've told my parents that I have a boyfriend, and I've introduced him to them, my dad then told me im too young to have a boyfriend and it ain't right because of our religion, he said the in the christian laws, 15 years old girls are too young to have a...

boyfriend they should be atleast 18 years old or older,

my mums fine with me avin a boyfriend bt she doesnt want me to get all serious with a relationship, except my dad wants me to be just with one person all my life, and that were both serious with each other...

I asked him what he wants me to do, he said he wants me to free single and be open to all of the boys, if anyone asks me out then thats fine just don't say yes to them, he said if im looking for the right guy for me then pray to god for him, and if I av a boyfriend like I do now I wont find him

But I don't wna look for another guy, I don't know what he wants me to do, he told me im too young, and I ain't allowed to av a boyfriend because were 15, and its against our religion, is that even true???

I told my boyfriend, that I think my dad was implyin that we should break up, but we both don't want to, I love him and im glad God gave him to me, and I actually thank god for him and now my dads saying look for the one then when your [I'm] sure then introduce him to me but you gta be 18 or atleast finished school and my dad's a pastor if you know what that is...

I don't know what to do, my boyfriend said if they say that I should break up with him I should say no, because I love him, I want to but I can't their my parents, I need help, im depress, I don't feel well, and I've been worryin about my boyfriend for the past week because his all cranky, depressed and angry because his scared that he'll loose me and not only that my parents wont let me out ever, they believe that girls should stay home and work, and we just finished school and me and my boyfriend avnt seen each other for a week and my boyfriend said he'll be twice as worse if he cant see me for more than a week...

im torn, I need advice, I don't wna loose my boyfriend but I dont want to make my relationship with my parents like all messed up either...

I cant stand this! please say any advice, any advice will do!

p.s my dad said its not my boyfriend, its our age... I told my boyfriend if thats the problem then we just av to wait for 2 years and he said he can't take it, that he knows he can't see me, he won't be able to be up for it

im confuse! help me and my boyfriend please...

This seems like a really tight situation!

OK...BREATHE!

Well, what you can do is express to you dad is that he found purpose in his religion and understanding for relationships on his own and that is respaected, but you are following something that you still have time to understand and figure out on your own.
Would he rather you wait till you are 18 and find one person to be at the drop of a hat and it turns abusive because you never had the time actually develop an emotional quality for men. I mean what happens if you get into a relationship and you cant understand what love is...then what.

Maybe he needs to look at this from a safe perspective,(Different point of view)
Now it's kinda like he wants to force something that he believes in on you.

Maybe this is when you rmom NEEDS to get involved.

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aww your dad is so mean o_0
love can find you at any age!
and if you leave him you myt never get him back, and u myt end up wid the wrong person

sometimes you just cant do things to please your parents!
its your life and you must see whos right for you
its your life not theirs

maybe your dad is concerned about his reputation if members of your church find out

I agree wid your mum, dont do anything serious with him like sleep with him or stuff
because if he does leave, oda guys may not want someone whos been around
you should get to know him for now, and do lots of fun stuff together

tell your dad that hes a good friend, maybe then he would be allowed to visit you
and dont make it so obvious when you're together in public because
people will gosip and be like ''did you c the pastors daughter holding that boy so tight''

if you think hes worth it then keep him

I hope I helped you ('',)
goodluck hun and take care!!!

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Thanks for the advice, I kinda av decided now, even tho, if I do seem like to mess up, if I do it, well he must be really important to me

and btw, my dad used to be a pastor, he isnt anymore its a long story, but he used to be one

but can I have more advice? if I do keep him, how we'll we see each other? do I av to make my dad realise I love him? do we av to go thru that agen? or am I and my boyfriend spose to hide our relationship? if yes, how would we av a relationship if we dont see each other???

15 eht 2 yung!!! dad's are like that deh just dont want you 2 find true luv...gud luk

I wud hyd your relationship en tolk on da phone, bebo, mys[pace, email en tel your dad your ryt im 2 yung but you c him secretly en he wont b angri at u

slow down girl...

okay...

look...you're 15 but you found a guy you fancy...

your mom likes him...but she doesn't want you to be too serious...

your dad is against it because of religous reasons...age being the key problem...

well...don't want to bust your dad's bubble but girls in the bible were getting married young...MARRIED...mind you, not just dating...

talk to your dad...ask him why he feels you're too young. ask him if he's worried about you having sex, or the emotionally maturity...

I don't wantto outright say disobey him, but I would give serious thought into questioning him...

remember to be calm and rationale when it comes to asking questions...you are his daughter after all and I'm sure he's merely worried for your safety and well being...