I'm 15 and want to get pregnant.

Okay, I just turned 15 May 20th, and I've had the urge to be pregnant and have a beautiful baby for so long. Is this really weird or what? I need to know because I often have the chance to have sex and get pregnant. So, I don't know what to do. Please tell me if this is really weird or what.

girl if you really want one think about it. cause you could be makin a mistake. my mom had my sister when she was 15. and she turn out fine she has a high paying job and stuff but you really need to think about it. no its not weird im 13 and do the same thing but I decided to wait to think about kids you have forever until...until you hit menopause LOL

I believe 15 is WAY too young to have a child... since you are still one
yourself!

Think about what kind of life your baby would have. Living either with
your parents or in some dingy apartment, On food stamps and WIC...
scrounging to get by and your mom mostly taking care of the baby anyway
because you have school. Don't forget prenatal care costs and hospital
costs too.

Now this might not be what would happen, but without a high school degree
you're really screwed financially. And while you can get by with a high
school degree, you probably won't find financial stability easily without
also getting a college degree.

Now I'm 20 and have a good paying job but I am just comfortably getting
by. And I am by myself and independent. So if I can barely live on my
wages, I would never dream trying to raise a baby too.

You still live with your parents and I assume you've either not started
working or have just hit the employment scene. Think of all the things you
take for granted that your parent(s) pay. The Electric bills, The
Water/Sewage bills, the garabage bills, Rent/house payments, car payments,
insurance payments, credit cards... and the list goes on.

So think twice, a baby at 15 IS REALLY WEIRD. (since you can't even
support yourself let alone a baby!)

I don't think it is weird. I had that same thoughts when I was 15. Although I never wanted to go out and get pregnant. Don't do anything stupid(dont go out and get pregnant). I am 17 and have had the scare of thinking I was pregnant. That is not somthing you want. you r not ready to have a baby yet. Think about all you would be giving up. Haveing a baby is a huge responsablitly that almost every teenager does not want to have.

Sorry, but I have to disagree with the last to and support the first. Think of the hypothetical child you are talking about here. Most abused children are born to underage mothers. Yes, you are saying you want to get pregnant and that makes you different from other underage mothers who wound up pregnant by accident - but when that baby won't stop crying after 3 hours because it has colic you'll be singing a different tune. All mothers have been in that moment, but underage mothers are ill-equiped to handle those types of situations and walk away from it. I think what you are really saying is that you need someone to love you. Is that it? You think a baby will fill that void because it will love you unconditionally? Don't fall into that trap. Yes, there are stories of where things worked out fine but that is not the normal situation. Most of the times the baby goes hungry or badly dressed in a nasty home being looked out by horrible people so mommy can go work a job to make ends meet. My suggestion is to take a close look inside of you and see what's missing with you first. Is your home life bad? Are you depressed? Maybe a pet would help for now or even babysitting for somebody that has children? Get a good education first and take good care of yourself so you can be the best possible mommy for some special little one someday. Okay? Much love, Angie

I was 14 when I first got pregnant..by a 16 year old.. and at first I didnt want the baby..no I'd never imagine giving it up. Honey, you are young but dont 'try' TO HAVE a baby. the father ended up trying to cheat on me while I was pregnant and I just got in a fight w/ his new girlfriend. im not saying there all like that but young boys are scandalous. I'm now 16 and loving my life.

Ok first you are not weird for wanting to get pregannt, BUT think dont be stupid. wanting and doing are two differnent things. If you think things are hard now, try it with a kid. if you want something to love you back no matter what get a puppy. in fact that is a great idea get a dog take care of it I mean buy all the food it needs and everything see how hard it is then multiply that by a million for a kid and you will see waiting until you are older and set up is the right thing to do

I'm 13 and I want a baby but I dont have a boy friend and no your not wierd

You have no ideal how much work it is to take care of a baby. Iam 21 and have a one year old it very hard still up all night, feedings 2-3 in the morning have fun enjoy being a kid. But dont have one till your ready to put your life on hold meaning no more going out, movies, ect and you wont to wain till your married and know the father will stand with you th help raise the baby my boyfriend only wanted one thing and moved on I cant I have to change dirty diapers make bottles feed cook and clean think first befor you do anything you will regret later

trust me it is scary being pregnant but wonderful. I don't believe anyone under 18 should get pregnant. because I am 16 and my fiance is 18 I feel terrified because he doesnt have a job I am the only one and I only make 200.00 a week. trust me dont do because now I pay rent light bill groceries and I eat everything up so fast. not smart don't do it.

The way it is supposed to be is...adults raise the children. Children can't raise children properly. Look around you and you will see the mess some kids have made of their lives by doing what you want to do. Judgemental has nothing to do with it. We are just telling it like it is. Grow up. Colt

go get a job babysitting and stuff or volunteer your time doing it dont have one when your young the day you walk across the stage graduating from highschool is the day you should go have sex and get pregnant. im 15 and have felt this way before but if you think about it what will your famly think is the guy going to be there for you is your family...I know a girl who got preg on purpose and her family kicked her out the dude left her she had no where to go then she went to a childrens home and they told her she could ever have and abortion are have the kid and it would get taken from her until she was 18 with a high paying stable job and house

in some way sweetheart I understand where your coming from, because I am 19 about to be 20 and I wanted to get pregnant at 17 and I did. I have a beautifal little boy, and I just found out I am pregnant with the second. me and my boyfriend been together for 4yrs in a half,and it's not easy please,please,please believe me it's not,I had to grow up so quickly. watch when you turn 18 your going to realize how hard life his and how you gotta do what you gotta do to survive, see right now your mom are any one of your legal guardians has responsibility for you, because your under age, but you have to learn as you grow, don't just try to move so fast because something is going to hit you really hard to make you slow down. any ways me and my b/f want to get married soon,but I feel that...you don't want a baby right now hon, you really don't. my cousin got pregnant at 15 and she's a dead beat mom, not saying you are going to be like that, but there are consequences you'll have to face in the end. you want to have fun,you want to enjoy life,having a baby means growing up quick when your that age,and believe me I wish I was still your age,you don't want to grow up so quick, you know like I know you would want to throw that idea away,if you don't know ask somebody who's does. I really wish the best for you,but you are still a baby yourself. 15, come on now 15!!! you should go to school,go to football games,to the movies with your friends, participate in school activities,and go to college get rich!! get married!! then have a baby,but for now just be patient,love yourself,be smart,think, and put GOD first. your going to have to stay up late when the baby wakes up and cry,cook for him/her clean up behind them, get a job, and other things your not ready to do yet, and be certain, if you don't clean up behind yourself,or take care of yourself, what good is it going to do your child? not saying you don't clean up behind your self, but we're using our logic here, ok? and if you do have a baby your no longer considered a kid,and that's what you want? to grow up quickly and go out into that world outside your door?when your that age, you don't know what's coming towards you,it will destroy you, and people are not going to care about you out there, I'm a product of it because at 15 I was there, and I didn't have a nice time out there either, so think about it, oh and when you get a boyfriend, make sure he's there for you 100% don't let some knuckle head little boy knock you up and get you pregnant and leave you, make sure he loves you for you,make sure he treats you like you want to be treated and that's like a young lady.have him respect you at all times,even in front of his friends, I'm not writing this to judge you,I'm just being real and sharing my opinions,and how life is. be safe sweety and may GOD bless you, take care!!!

girl ! how are you going to pay for the baby what are you going to quit school ? look I think you should make sure you use protection if you have sex . you'll enjoy the baby much more if you wait till your older and can actually take full responsibility. but I mean no one can stop you , you have to come to a point where you make your decision . everyone can tell you not too , and then you end up doing just as if everyone can telll you to do it and you don't . we can't make your decision for you , you have to make it yourself . and I think if you put it up on this then its obviously bothering you which means that there is something wrong in the picture. so my answer to you is try and wait and make sure you can give 100% to your baby I mean you can't give up your whole life right now and give that full attention to your baby .

Your not weird I would just get pregnet and have one. I know a lot of people disagree with you and probably what I am saying now but I just think your old enough to have one. I think it would make you happy imagine seeing him or her the first time it looks at you.. its first word buying it clothes and shoes and having someone there with you who needs you and it will depend on you for everything. It will be hars to raise it but heck you can get child support, wic and goverment help!

PLEASE DON'T!!! That is so horrible getting pregnant at 15. Don't you know that your body hasn't developed yet. Your body dosn't fully develop until you are 21. You should atleast wait until your married! Then you'll have a husband that will stand by you. And plus not all but some babys are born with problems if they are born from a mother who is not fully devolped and you could DIE!!!I think getting a pet is a great idea or babysitting then you could earn your own money and stay with kids and babys ALL OF THE TIME except when they are being brats then you can send them ba k to mommy and not have to worry about and that is the best part. But do't throw your life away you still have a long.long time before you graduate high school and colledge.As soon as I read your question I clicked on it and just had to give you some advice.Well I hope you are smart and make the right choice because you can ask each person in the world if it is a good idea to get pregnant and they can give you an answer but you are your own person and only you can do what you think is right. If you think you and your baby will live normal,healthy lives then go for it think before you do it. GOOD LUCK! With lots of love,Kathleen

I had the same urge but girl no dont do it hunny. its hard really hard.

I no whut your going threw im 16 and im pregnant my mom is actually excited but I no once she gets here my mom is going to change her mind I dont have a good job and I dont even have a car I still have my boy friend and hes really happy he has a good job and makes a lot of money we can actually support our baby I got lucky but please not everyone is as lucky as me please live your life fully worry about munchkins later go out and have fun but not to much girly!!

You should really think about this before you actually do it. Getting pregnant is something that will change your life forever. You won't be able to do a lot of the things 'normal' teenagers are doing, and you'll be contributing most of your money to your baby. At age 15, you're too caught up in how cute they are and forget to look at the bigger picture. What about school? A job? It wouldn't be possible if you had a baby to take care of. If your parents work full time, then they couldn't stay home and take care of your baby for you. You would have to stay home and care for him or her yourself. Babies are blessings, but if you aren't prepared for them, you'll probably later regret your decision. Yes, you'll look at your beautiful son or daughter and think how lucky you are, but you'll also think about what you could have accomplished or achieved if you had just waited a few years. I really hope that you'll re-think your decision, and re-evaluate your options. xox;;Greta

I know exactly how you feel. Im going through tha same thing right now. Im 16 and me and my boyfriend want a baby but we really thought bout it and decided to wait and I strongly think you should do tha same! But if you really think you r ready go for it. But think of all tha options before you make your big decison!! Best of luck to u!! <3 drea

You really should wait until you are older. HOw can you possibly give the child a good life at this age? Think abotu your kids life being raised by a teenager or a responsible adult. Honestly, you could ruin that childs life, your parents life, and your own.

it's not weird.

it's completely normal.

you're a human being and your body ready to make babies so.. it's telling you to.

but that doesn't mean that you should go out and have $ex to get pregnant. we live in a society where it isn't wise nor practical to have children at such a young age. wait a couple of years.. you have your whole life ahead of you. go out and live it before you commit it to raising a child.

you may want to talk to your mom [[or whoever]] about getting on birth control. and don't let them talk you out of it. you're feelings are natural and are sometimes hard to repress.

im 15 too && my boy frendz 17 we have been trying to have a kid ourselves but no luck.. a lot of people have kids when they're yung it meanz that you needa gr0w up regardless && take kare of wuhts urs..juss make sure that your man is ther 4 you 100% && will stand by your side no matter wuht..all im sayin isz WHATEVER HAPPENS HAPPENS s0 if you do end up pregnant just b ready 2 take resp0nsibility 4 you and your lil angel && d0nt d0 any thing u'll regret..<babi

babe no one is ever ready to be a mum, people say they do but it isnt really that easy to be mum, there is a lot of work into being a mum, you gotta go through so much just to have a baby you need money to support your child babe you have so much time to have a baby, I some times want a baby but I just think of it in the long run
but its up to you if you want a child go for it but it isnt easy,my friends have had babies and they just cant cope,
good luck sweetie
have a good think about it before you do any thing k

ummm
to tell you the truth
I often had urges to become pregnant
I guess because teenage pregnancy has been going on a lot in my area which is L.A COUNTY and sometimes when I find out someone I know wuhsz pregnant I feel the envy and I want to be pregnant too
but then I snap back to reality and see that a baby is hard work
I've had expierience because my nephew was born and I took kare of him since I wus 13 now I juss turned 14 but am still too young to handle such a great responsibility.
I think you r too
but then again im not here to judge, but juss here to give my thoughts
plus am bored
lol
but na seriously if you decide to become a mommy well good luck
and if you did become a mother since this was posted like 2 years ago
I hope evryhting went well and wish you the best for your future
even if I dont know u...

Tell you the truth you are not ready to be a mom trust me. Because is hardwork and then if you do want to be a mom it need to be with that special person that you want to be woth forever and not just some one you thought that you wnated to be with and change your mind. And then you need to think about that childs futuer and right now you proably dont even have a job so you should think twice before you react.

You should try babysitting a week or two because I baby-sit I tell you it is a work out and I am 15. I have been baby sitting the 2 year old baby since he was born. and you have to wake up to wkae when they cry and feed them when there hungery and they eat nine times a day and you have to change there diapers a lot. And trust me you dont want that kinf of life right now. I used to want that life until I started baby sitting.

Stop right there.
YOUR LIFE WILL BE RUINED!!

This is such a bad idea.
But at your age, it's understandable. Because your hormones are raging all over the place. You feel broody. I sometimes do, but I'm not naive enough to decide that a baby would fulfill my life at my age!
Having babies takes a lot of time, money, responsibility and care.
They're not dolls. Once you get bored of them, there's no going back!
So I suggest you seriously reconsider having one!

what the hell is happening to our generation GENERATION X the proclaimed generation. I'm 14, and I am honestly totally pissed off at how whorish we've become. if you have sex now (which I wouldn't be suprised if you already have) what else do you have to look forward to in life. I remember when my brother was in high school he always thought of it as embarassing to say he's a virgin. he graduated in 05. but now I can say that I'm proud to be a virgin in a world full of sluts, call me crazt but I have factual proof. at least half of the freshman at my high scholl have already lost their virginity, I know some that lost it in 8th grade. and you see all this sh_it on myspace about how these 8th graders will be saying 'I'm ready to have sex, you're the one' and it seriously pisses me off. I WAS on the phone with my girlfriend while I was reading this and I got so pissed off at this whole situation you're wanting to get into that I couldn't even talk to her anymore. this is really something. you know what. go ahead. go get knocked up (again) and just think about how its going to feel when/IF you ever get married and your husband might actually be a surviving virgin, and you guys will be on your honeymoon and probably by that time, with you, it'll be like tossing a hotdog down a hallway...if you undertstand what I mean.

Hey,
Well you are only 15 and you have SOO much to experince before you have a baby! I mean dont get me wrong I absolutley love babies but you still have highschool and what not to go through. If I was you I would wait until you are atleast in college and have money saved and what not. But Nah I was 16 almost when I wanted a child too. lol I know what it feels like but hang in there and wait til you find the right guy and have time and money to settle down! You will be sooo much happier!

god.. please nooo. your not even old enough to legally provide for your child, how bout, finish school first, go to college, SUCCEED in life, get married, and then worry about kids.. because this urge to have kids wont be there forever, because once you have them , you wont want em lol.

dont have a baby so young. finish school get a realistic job and then think about that. theres this girl in my sch00l who is dying for one but look at the negetives theres consequences. I dont think its wierd but it happens :]
but think about it!

NAH...I DONT THINK SO...I THINK YOU SHOULD FINISH SCHOOL AND THEN GET A GOOD JOB THAT GIVES YOU GOOD MONEY...BY THE TIME YOU TURN 17 OR SO, THEN YOU'LL LOOK AT THE REAL AND REALIZE THAT HAVING A KID TOO YOUNG IS NOT THE BEST OPTION FOR YOU NOW...ITS VERY EXPENSIVE, YOUR CHILDHOOD GOES TO WAIST BECAUSE YOU HAVE TO BE THERE EVERY SINGLE MINUTE LOOKING OUT FOR THE BABY, THE DAD IS PROBABLY A DEAD-BEAT DUDE, MAYBE YOU WONT FIND A BABY SITTER, YOU CANT FINISH SCHOOL AND THOSE STUFF THEN YOU'LL REALIZE WHAT YOU WERE SUPPOSED TO A LOOONG TIME AGO...HOPE THIS HELPED...

DUDE your WAYYY to young to be having a baby go to school get an education GETA JOB how could even support your self and the baby girl your wayy to young dont waste your teenage years meet a nice a guy get married then have a baby seriously you wont regret it if you wait

I Am 13 And Pregnant I A So Scared I Havernt Even Told My Parent Or The Babys Dad Who Left Me For Another Lass ,, If My Parents Dont Stand By Me Then I Am Alone In The World To Bring Up A Child ... Please Think Of What Yu wil loose in the world

WHAT THE HELL are you TALKING ABOUT??? you think it is fun being pregnent? Well, I believe it is not. 15 is WAY too young to have a baby.

YOUR SAYINGG THISS ANDD YOOO NEED TT ACTUALLYY BE SCAREDD when YOO AREE PREGNANT C I WANTED A BABEYY BUH NOWW I AM GNAHH have ONEI AM SO SCARED

Believe it or not, it's natural to want to have children or even just BE pregnant, even in your teens. But the fact remains that it's probably your hormones that are doing this to you. You're at an age where you have a LOT of changes going on in your brain and in your body. I'm not trying to be your creepy sex ed teacher, here... but you have to realize that you're being driven by a very primal instinct right now that's intensified by the rush of sex hormones in your body.

Don't think with your sex organs and don't think with your heart (as wonderful as it may seem to have a baby). Think with your head.

'The children of teenage mothers have lower birth weights, are more likely to perform poorly in school, and are at greater risk of abuse and neglect. The sons of teen mothers are 13 percent more likely to end up in prison while teen daughters are 22 percent more likely to become teen mothers themselves.'
- Familyfirstaid.org

I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL FOR SOME REASON I BEEN WANTING TO GET PREGNANT TOO BUT YOU KNOW THEN I THINK OF ALL THE THINGS IMMA HAVE TO DO BUT THATS TRUE I want to HAVE A BABY SO THAT I COULD BE A YOUNG MOM THATS going to HAVE THE BABY FOR A LONGGG TIME BUT THEN AGAIN THATS UP TO YOU IF YOU THINK YOUR READY THEN GO FOR IT BUT THEN AGAIN I THINK YOUR GOING TO REGRET IT LATER ON BECAUSE YOU MISSED THING LIKE HAVING MORE GUYS GOING OUT WITH YOUR GIRLS, school AND MANY MORE THINGS...

Please rethink what you are saying. I know you may not take my advise, but please consider. I am 29 years old. It seems like yesterday I was 15. But I wish I knew then what I know now about a lot of things. And there are things I would not have done then. And I do know this- I have changed and my way of thinking has changed so much since then. I can't believe how much I have changed since then, even since my early 20s. You will see what I mean. I had a boyfriend who talked me into having sex at 15; but I knew it was wrong. I would take it back if I could. Thankfully, I did not get pregnant. I can't imagine if I had! If I had, I would have a 14 year old right now! 29 is still young. It was a blessing he broke up with me to marry another girl and I was able to go on to college, get a degree, have a career, meet and marry a wonderful man who also has a career, and now we just had our first baby last year and are trying for our second. My husband's job allows me to stay home with our child and I have been able to be there to see him grow up, watch his first steps, and teach him- not a babysitter or daycare center. When you have a child, it is a great responsibility. And it is no longer about you, you have to consider your child in everything you do. There is no more going out with your friends when you want to. I didn't say you couldn't go out, it will just not be everytime you want to because your baby will come first. Your freedom is gone. And don't think that you will have a baby for someone else to take care of when you want them to- your baby needs you and you are responsible for raising and caring for him/her. If you think you will finish school and go on to college, don't forget that a baby will not understand and that they demand your time, any time of the day or night whether you have had sleep or not. At 15 years old, please have fun with your friends. Finish school and enjoy being single and dating. You have a long life ahead of you. Go on to college if that is your choice, so that you can have a good paying job for your child BEFORE he or she gets here- and wait until you find Mr. Right so that you have him to share in the joy of being pregnant and having a baby. And it feels so good to have a baby with your husband that you love and know will always be there by your side to help you in raising this baby. I can guarantee you that you will have no regrets this way! And you will be happy you did. I have wanted a baby all my life, too. But good things come to those who wait. And I am so glad I did; I wouldn't change it for anything.

Please rethink what you are saying. I know you may not take my advise, but please consider. I am 29 years old. It seems like yesterday I was 15. But I wish I knew then what I know now about a lot of things. And there are things I would not have done then. And I do know this- I have changed and my way of thinking has changed so much since then. I can't believe how much I have changed since then, even since my early 20s. You will see what I mean. I had a boyfriend who talked me into having sex at 15; but I knew it was wrong. I would take it back if I could. Thankfully, I did not get pregnant. I can't imagine if I had! If I had, I would have a 14 year old right now! 29 is still young. It was a blessing he broke up with me to marry another girl and I was able to go on to college, get a degree, have a career, meet and marry a wonderful man who also has a career, and now we just had our first baby last year and are trying for our second. My husband's job allows me to stay home with our child and I have been able to be there to see him grow up, watch his first steps, and teach him- not a babysitter or daycare center. When you have a child, it is a great responsibility. And it is no longer about you, you have to consider your child in everything you do. There is no more going out with your friends when you want to. I didn't say you couldn't go out, it will just not be everytime you want to because your baby will come first. Your freedom is gone. And don't think that you will have a baby for someone else to take care of when you want them to- your baby needs you and you are responsible for raising and caring for him/her. If you think you will finish school and go on to college, don't forget that a baby will not understand and that they demand your time, any time of the day or night whether you have had sleep or not. At 15 years old, please have fun with your friends. Finish school and enjoy being single and dating. You have a long life ahead of you. Go on to college if that is your choice, so that you can have a good paying job for your child BEFORE he or she gets here- and wait until you find Mr. Right so that you have him to share in the joy of being pregnant and having a baby. And it feels so good to have a baby with your husband that you love and know will always be there by your side to help you in raising this baby. I can guarantee you that you will have no regrets this way! And you will be happy you did. I have wanted a baby all my life, too. But good things come to those who wait. And I am so glad I did; I wouldn't change it for anything.

Please rethink what you are saying. I know you may not take my advise, but please consider. I am 29 years old. It seems like yesterday I was 15. But I wish I knew then what I know now about a lot of things. And there are things I would not have done then. And I do know this- I have changed and my way of thinking has changed so much since then. I can't believe how much I have changed since then, even since my early 20s. You will see what I mean. I had a boyfriend who talked me into having sex at 15; but I knew it was wrong. I would take it back if I could. Thankfully, I did not get pregnant. I can't imagine if I had! If I had, I would have a 14 year old right now! 29 is still young. It was a blessing he broke up with me to marry another girl and I was able to go on to college, get a degree, have a career, meet and marry a wonderful man who also has a career, and now we just had our first baby last year and are trying for our second. My husband's job allows me to stay home with our child and I have been able to be there to see him grow up, watch his first steps, and teach him- not a babysitter or daycare center. When you have a child, it is a great responsibility. And it is no longer about you, you have to consider your child in everything you do. There is no more going out with your friends when you want to. I didn't say you couldn't go out, it will just not be everytime you want to because your baby will come first. Your freedom is gone. And don't think that you will have a baby for someone else to take care of when you want them to- your baby needs you and you are responsible for raising and caring for him/her. If you think you will finish school and go on to college, don't forget that a baby will not understand and that they demand your time, any time of the day or night whether you have had sleep or not. At 15 years old, please have fun with your friends. Finish school and enjoy being single and dating. You have a long life ahead of you. Go on to college if that is your choice, so that you can have a good paying job for your child BEFORE he or she gets here- and wait until you find Mr. Right so that you have him to share in the joy of being pregnant and having a baby. And it feels so good to have a baby with your husband that you love and know will always be there by your side to help you in raising this baby. I can guarantee you that you will have no regrets this way! And you will be happy you did. I have wanted a baby all my life, too. But good things come to those who wait. And I am so glad I did; I wouldn't change it for anything.

Please rethink what you are saying. I know you may not listen to my advise, but please consider. I am 29 years old and it just seems like yesterday I was 15- you will see what I mean one day. And I have changed so much since then. At 15 I had a boyfriend who talked me into having sex. I knew I shouldn't have- it was wrong. And I would take it back if I could. Thankfully, I did not get pregnant; I would have a 14 year old now if I had! 29 is still young. It was a blessing that this boyfriend broke up with me to marry another girl and I was able to go on to college, get a degree, have a career, meet and marry a wonderful man who also has a career, and we just had our first child last year and are trying for our second. And by the way, my husband and I waited till we were married before we had sex, which was wonderful. I, too, had always dreamed of being pregnant and having a baby. I think that is just something young girls do. I am so glad I waited until now. I was able to enjoy my single years and I had plenty of time to meet the right person before that happened. And my husband has a job that allows me to stay home and enjoy teaching and raising our child; something I probably would not have, had things been different. Please, finish school, enjoy your single years, and go to college and get a good paying job BEFORE you have a baby. And find Mr. Right. There is nothing like having a loving husband and knowing you are pregnant and carrying his child- and having him by your side through it all. Please remember that if you have a baby and you are trying to finish school or go on to college as a single mom, babies do not understand. They demand your attention, any time of the day or night. And it doesn't matter whether you've had your sleep or not. And if you think someone else will take care of it, it shouldn't be that way. You are your child's #1 responsibility and he or she needs you. You will have no more freedom to just go and do as you please. So enjoy where you are now; you have a long life ahead of you. You will have a baby one day. Good things come to those who wait- believe me, you will be happy you waited! I am, and I wouldn't change it for anything.

hey, look, someday I want a family of my own. with a loving husband. but not right now! im 16! trust me, wait! yes, I want a baby too, but im going to get a good job/carrer so I can support myself and have a better life. also, I want to wait until I have met the right person. the love of my life.
think about that, these urges will probably pass or slow, just dont rush into things! its definetly not worth it in the long run!

okay no your way to young you want a child an your still one your self do you have younger northers or sisters if so stick with them help take care of them wait untill your older and more machier

Use protection and do not get pregnant! You're too young, too immature (it seems) and you need to be in a committed relationship first. Do your 'beautiful child' a favor and wait until you're honestly ready. I doubt there are many women that became moms at such a young age that would tell you it's a great idea. It's just not easy, especially alone. You're barely even old enough to work legally.

dont do it or you can .

if your 15 with a kid your a ho. end of story/ how does it look going to highschool with a belly the size of a watermelon. not fitting in the desk. thats retarded. pp=remaridal sex is wrong anyway.

dont feel bad I want a freakin baby c I had told my dad and he is sayin I don't know bout you havin a baby and im 15 but my dad is kool and he'll proley say yes because im flippin spoiled but in your case you might not be so and e - way well just get prego and tell your people it was meant to be ... lol well if you dont get your way then your screwed!! sorry

Great, just what this world needs - people treating babies like they're puppies (which is already a horrible issue...the way people treat puppies).

I totally see where your comin from but nah don't do it! You're still a kid and you need to live you life to the fullest. Besides, babies AREN'T cheap girl I'm tellin ya. I used to be just like you and think that I should get knocked up and I did and now I have a huge responsibilty. No more parties, late night outs or anything like that. Good luck and don't f*ck up your life!

Oh my goodness! Even though it is a normal feeling to be a parent, it is best if you wait until you are married. Children take a lot of time and care, and for a 15 year old, it would ruin your high school experience. Please wait

Girl I want to baby bad too
and im only 15
me and my boyfriend both want one
but we know that now is NOT the time
YOU WILL HAVE KIDS ONE DAY
after you get out of school then you can have one
BUT NOT RIGHT NOW!!!

its not wierd youre probably lonely and if you have a baby you know your baby will never leave you and always love you. having a baby will change everything! in your life make sure your completley ready!!

Its not weird to want to have a bay but I'm going to tell you now I was pregnant when I was 15 (btw I was raped but my friends didn't know that)and the whole time I was strssed and it was wicked hard I had no money the only support I had was from my parents I lost a lot of my friends and in the end I gave my baby up for adoption and it was the best thing I had ever done because I knew at 15 I could not support a child with or without help I just wasn't stable to do it o would have been a kid raising another kid and that's not good so really think about this even though a beautiful child would be born think it through

Dont rush it will pass.

I suggest you should watch a movie called 'palindromes' it will make you think differently

Firstly, not all babies are cute!! Some are quite ugly but their mother naturally finds them adorable.

Secondly, they cry and poop. And what if your baby is colicky (sp?).

Thirdly, it would be your baby, NOT your mother's!! So you shouldn't be planning a baby at such a young age until you can support yourself!!

Fourthly, you need to find a father that wants to have a child, not just get pregnant and then stick him with child support or whatever when you discover that you CANNOT support yourself and the baby.

Fifthly, chances of you getting a good education and a good job will be cut durastically.

And Sixthly, This is not a funny joke. This happens to people and occasionly can ruin lives (not to be harsh but this is reality). And if you're not joking, then just wait for the feeling to pass. Or try babysitting :P

Dont be crazy omfg your tooo young your going to regret it when you get older! seriously trust me!

I had a baby at 17...and belive me it sucks!!! but it get through it cause my husbands way older. don't be freakin crazy!!!

NOOO DONT RUINED your LIFE HAVE FUN WAIT INTIL you GET OLDER

I know how you feel im 15 and im trying for one too.too all the adults who look down own young mothers to *** with youll because you have no right to judge nobody call me what you want too but oh well.I lost my baby its dead im trying to get that back you dont know how it hurts to lose a baby.I HAVE A REASON TRYING TO GIVE LIFE TO SOMEONE I NEVER KNEW ME AND MY BOYFRIEND HAS BEEN TOGETHER ALMOST 4 YEARS SO ADULTS STOP LOOKING DOWN ON TEEN MOTHERS

I know how you feel im 15 and im trying for one too.too all the adults who look down own young mothers to *** with youll because you have no right to judge nobody call me what you want too but oh well.I lost my baby its dead im trying to get that back you dont know how it hurts to lose a baby.I HAVE A REASON TRYING TO GIVE LIFE TO SOMEONE I NEVER KNEW ME AND MY BOYFRIEND HAS BEEN TOGETHER ALMOST 4 YEARS SO ADULTS STOP LOOKING DOWN ON TEEN MOTHERS

ladipo: Do you think maybe that the adults might know something you may not, like maybe they are trying to save you a lot of heart ache?

Young Mothers who get pregnant and are not married have to deal with a lot more than they realize. It will be hard for you and for your baby.

Why don't you wait until you are out of school and married. Then you and your husband can plan on having a baby. I can honestly say it will be much easier and you'll both be blessed.

So, please wait. God bless you

The above message was to the one who posted this post, not ladipo, sorry. I read what ladipo and my heart went out for her too, because teens (young people) are so lost these last days right before the Lord's return. It just makes me so sad!

Anyway, I will pray that both of you will do the right thing. You can never do wrong by following the Lord and His laws. God bless you.

Well I don't think its wierd but you should wait

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Joana Guzman

Wait to when you are younger. Then you will be married and two of you can support the baby. Think about the child first.