I'm 15, and I want to get pregnant.

Okay, I just turned 15 May 20th, and I've had the urge to be pregnant and have a beautiful baby for so long. Is this really weird or what? I need to know because I often have the chance to have sex and get pregnant. So, I don't know what to do. Please tell me if this is really weird or what.

I believe 15 is WAY too young to have a child... since you are still one yourself!

Think about what kind of life your baby would have. Living either with your parents or in some dingy apartment, On food stamps and WIC... scrounging to get by and your mom mostly taking care of the baby anyway because you have school. Don't forget prenatal care costs and hospital costs too.

Now this might not be what would happen, but without a high school degree you're really screwed financially. And while you can get by with a high school degree, you probably won't find financial stability easily without also getting a college degree.

Now I'm 20 and have a good paying job but I am just comfortably getting by. And I am by myself and independent. So if I can barely live on my wages, I would never dream trying to raise a baby too.

You still live with your parents and I assume you've either not started working or have just hit the employment scene. Think of all the things you take for granted that your parent(s) pay. The Electric bills, The Water/Sewage bills, the garabage bills, Rent/house payments, car payments, insurance payments, credit cards... and the list goes on.

So think twice, a baby at 15 IS REALLY WEIRD. (since you can't even support yourself let alone a baby!)

aw That's cute! But, you'll see the Difficulty when you Have The Baby!!

you know what I can totally understand how you feel for a long time I wanted a baby too ... but the thing is if you want a baby so bad you'll wait because right now being the age you are you cant possibly give your baby everything it needs so if you want a beutiful baby with a beautiful life then you will wait...

I've wanted a baby since I was 13 I tried so hard to have one then one day I thought I was pregnant I got scared I kept thinking my parents are going to kill me! how am I going to raise a child when I am a child? where am I going to go if I get kicked out? what if the daddy dont want it? then I realized my parents would kill me..I cant raise a child because I am a child and cant get a job nobody wanted me so if I got kicked out we'd be liveing with a pimp trying to make my ways and I told the guy sure enouph he didnt want it I finally started my period and now since I went through allll that I DONT WANT ONE TILL I GET A HOME get married and have a job THINK ABOUT IT KID cause if you have a baby there goes your life flushed down the toilet

that is weird

sweetie I red your message you are way to young to have a baby enjoy your young life you do not need a baby to make you happy because just think these young boys your age dont care about you or love you all they want to do is get a nut.please think about wanting to get pregnant none of these young guys will ever take care of you.my advice to you please wait until there is someone who really loves you and can take care of you

I want a baby, I'm only 17, but I don't care, I know what its like to be pregnant... sadly... it didn't work out... ;( but yeah, I wouldn't have one now, I'm too young, but I know if I ever got pregnant again, I won't make the mistake of being pressured into doing something I don't want to do... so if you want to get pregnant, listen to your heart, and follow what that has to say =] Don't do it because its a new trend, do it because its something you want... but you have to remember you need to raise it, cope with the night time feeds and basically everything a baby needs, like food, clothes.. baby powder, diapers.. everything, and you can't get your mum to do all of that... I just wish I told my mum.. you never know if you get in to that situation she might support you through it xxx