I'm 14 and pregnant

I'm 14 and I just found out I'm pregnant.. I have no idea what I'm going to do. Once my family finds out they will disown me and always think or me as a slut, I really want to have this baby and give the world to it, because I know I will be a good...

mother, but it's not going to be easy to deal with a family that doesn't support me.. and I'm afraid that the father of this baby isn't going to help me support it, I really need help on this... I have no idea what to do..

i was 15 when i found out i was pregnant and i was in the same situation but there was no turning back no matter what anyone thought of me it did not matter i was going to have my baby so i told my mom she told my dad soon everyone knew but it didnt matter i was called names by the whole neighorhood, but my parents stuck by my side now iam 28 i have my own house iam STILL with the babys father and doing great my daughter is going to the 7th grade and is in the gifted classes and my parents stand as proud grandparents,so hang in there everything will be ok make sure you get your prenatal care A.S.A.P so you will have a healthy baby

dear gurl. I am 14 too and i think it is right i mean the way uve taken it. how old is this guy theni will tell u what to do but just be patient and God bless u

Hi im 16 and i was ur age when i found out i was pregnant! I have a daughter and she's 15 mts old. Her dad asked me 2 marry him when I can legally get married. My daughter means the world to me but my life is not going 2 be easy. I chose to keep her and raise her on my own. Her father was lot older then me and left me before she was born. I know your scarred now but telling ur family is always hard try something simple. Answer their questions with thought and the truth . If you are still together with the father make sure they know wat ur plans are.

I hope you find you're way,
Hailey

HEY UM...iDK WHEN THiS WAS POSTED BUT i JUST TURNED 15 iN JULY i HAD UNPROTECTED SEX WiTH A BOY iVE BEEN TALKiNG TO FOR A YEAR iT WAS THE FiRST OF MANY TiMES THAT WE'VE DONE iT THAT iT WAS UNPROTECTED!? i JUST WANTED TO KNOW WHAT WERE THE VERRRY EARLiEST SiGNS YOU NOTiCED! BECAUSE HiS STUFF iS COMiNG OUT OF ME FOR ONE THERE iS LiGHT BLEEDiNG...WHAT DiD YOU EXPERiENCED [oh its only been 5 days since this] please e-mail me at Fun mail me/yahoo.com

I'm 15 now,but I got pregnant when I was 14,but I lost it.My mother always told me that things happen 4 a reason.I guess dat it just wasnt meant 2 be.I started havin sex at the age of 12{{yeah dats an early start}}.I wish I would have waited.Still 2day me and the man that was goin 2 be the father of my child we are still together.We hav been through thick N thin.Lik they always say things happen 4 a reason.

=={{Let me get yall people who talk negative, straight}}==havin sex at an early age dosent mean that you're a hoe.So yall need to stop criticizin people and sayin that females who hav sex at an early age is a hoe.Shid my mother always told me =={{{Only GOD can judge me}}}==.So all yall people that are judgin people yall need 2 stop becuz, u cant judge people.Everybody make mistakes and sooner or later they will regret them.Aint nobody on this earth =={{PERFECT}}==.How do yall feel tellin these young females 2 get an aborption?Gettin an aborption can send u straight 2 hell.It's lik takin away a life but except that life isnt born into this world yet.Killin a baby thats sad.When I was pregnant gettin an aborption never crossed my mind,becuz I knew dat if I laid down wit a man then I was woman enough 2 take care of my child.I did everything right becuz I knew that I was carryin an unborn child inside of my wound and I had 2 bring it into this world.I learned from my mistakes.
{{I'm tired of seein people comment dat females at the age of {{12-15}} are 2 young to hav babies.2 me u r never 2 young.To me u cant blame females becuz everybody make mistakes and yes i did learn from my mistakes.When I was pregnant everythin was fine.My mother wasnt upset.When I was pregnant me and my mother had began 2 become very close friends and still 2day we still hav a daughter to mother and mother 2 daughter relationship.Just 2 give yall some advice CONDOMS arent really protection becuz they can break.BIRTH CONTROL isnt really a protection becuz when u first go to the doctor to get on birth control the first thing that they're goin 2 tell u is that it doesnt protect u from gettin an SEXUAL TRANSMITTED DISEASE{{STD}}.The only thing that birth control does is dat it protects u from gettin pregnant.

For all yall females out there thats reading this, if u need any advice please hit me up in a message becuz I know what yall r goin through and plus I have been through these things to.Much love to ya.Dont let other people tell u whats best 4 u.Do whats best 4 u and ur unborn child.Be a good mother.Cherish ur child and love them lik ur parents love u.

juz tell ur parents bout it...

hey its okay u should tell them its better than them finding out any other way

first you should tell our parents about it and then if they get mad pra that they will understand i am sure that they will not kick you out or anything at the worst it will turn out that they put all responcability in you wich it should. god wants you as a mother if he didn't then he would not have let it happen ok. also talk to the father. what's he's name?

So, since it was almost a year ago u posted this... what did u do??

heyy. i'm 13 and one of my best friends is going through the same thing right now. even though teen pregnacy is frowned upon it isnt a bad thing. i think that you should tell a family member that you are sure will accept it. things are going to be hard but i'm sure you're a strong person. alot of people support you and i dont think you dont need the father,some your of friends will be there. you're not a slut so dont think that.
i really hope everythig works out. im here if you ever wanna talk. =D
-Tiffany

Hi, you arer fourteen and in the familly way, you are afraid from your dad,
i had a girl like you after she went to Scotland ,she had a one night stand,she came to malta in the familly way, both me and her mum we told her o see what she is going to do with her baby.The time came for her to have her baby.We took her to hospital,We waited untill fhe had the baby.It was a girlour lord gave my dauther a wonderfull baby girl.i did not whant to see her but my wife took me to see her,She was and still is the most beutifull girl i ever soon to-day she is four years old and she is the apple of my eye and no one dares to shout at her ,as she and her mum still lives with us at home, me and my wife are grand parents of eleven grand children don.t give up hope especpesilly the baby after havent your dad done any mistakes in his life i done several,, i am sure once your dad see the baby he will exept her
regards louis henood from the island of Malta

i think u should keep it and who cares what anyone says if u can sit there and have s*x then u can sit there and have ur child and u really need to think about the things that could happen be for u open ur legs to any one

Ok im 14 myself and pregnant as well and thinking the same thing but once i told my best friend she was ok with it and she is helping me through this you need to tell someone that you trust andlove so they could help you through this...

i thin i agree with the people that u willbe a good mom but if my parents disowned me i would hire some one to scare them u know like stalk them.etc...

i no how u feel im 14 n 7 months pregnant ! x i found it very hard to tell my mom about it but i knew i wanted to keep it so i told my mom and told her i was keeping it she soon came round to the idea and no is fine with everything the father of the baby can be supporting but also can not be but i no i can cope with my baby now i have the suppport of my mom . i have 2 months left and im soo glad i kept my child ! i love it sooo much alredy just stay strong and u will be fine x good luck

I would tell my mom,and after she freaks out tell her that it would mean the world 2 u if u could keep the baby!.Then i would break it 2 my bf and tell him it would mean the world 2 u if he saw the baby or at least held him/her one time.Then i would ask my mom to let me keep the baby or for her to adopt the baby.

You are 14...what are you doing having sex, how can you possibly think that you'll be a good mother when you still are a child...you are a child...my advice to you is think about what you are about to do, I am prochoice. YOu are a baby...you're childhood is over if you have this baby..and that my dear is reality,...play with barbies, watch tv do what every other 14 year old child does...