I'm 14 and pregnant

I'm 14 and I just found out I'm pregnant.. I have no idea what I'm going to do. Once my family finds out they will disown me and always think or me as a slut, I really want to have this baby and give the world to it, because I know I will be a good...

mother, but it's not going to be easy to deal with a family that doesn't support me.. and I'm afraid that the father of this baby isn't going to help me support it, I really need help on this... I have no idea what to do..

I THINK U SHOULD SIT DOWN WITH UR PARN3TS AND JUSS B3 V3RY HON3ST WITH TH3M! BUT FIRST U SHOULD T3LL THA FATH3R OF THA BABY AND S33 IF H3 IS GOIN TO SUPPORT IT!! AND JUSS T3LL UR PAR3NTS THAT IT WAS A V3RY V3RY BAD MISTAK3 AND IT WONT HAPP3N AGAIN AND IF TH3Y DONT ACC3PT3D IT U SHOULD GO TO COUNSILING

My little sister got pregnant at 14, her son was born when she was 15. She is now 17 and her 2nd baby is due any day now. She is an excellent mother, and my mother helps her as much as she can. Before she got pregnant, she never really cared about school or work, maybe she just didn't try very hard. when she found out she was pregnant, it really motivated her to do things in her life. She graduated high school a year early by going to alternative ed. She is now only 17 and will start college this fall. My mom has always been supportive of her and helps her as much as she can. I also have a cousin who was 17 and did not tell her parents, until she was in labor in their bathroom and their granddaughter is what they are most proud of now.

I don't know your family, but I know mine would be angry but they would get over it.

Whatever you do, let your child motive you to make good choices in life. Children are great. It can be difficult at times, but be positive and teach them the right things. And, just think, if you would have waited until you were 10 years older, you wouldn't get to spend as much time with them. I've heard grandchildren are even better than children, I'm sure being able to watch your grandchildren have children and get married is very special.

I agree with everyone about getting the medical help to you need to keep your baby and yourself healthy.

By the way, Congratulations!

Okay look i think i am preg and i'm 14 but once i find out i am i'm going to tell my parents they can't make you have an abortion the doctor will tell you it's your choice that's what i was told when i was 13 and pregnant i had a miscarriage though..My momwas telling me your baby is going to be deformed and all this other crap and i was like i don't care yea it'll need more loving and caring but ya know what don't be scared to tell your parents hun yea they will be disappionted at first but they can get over it..Just rite me back okay you're gonna be fine hun

Honey, my mom's friend growing up had 4 kids by the time she graduated from high school, which was when she was 16. They turned out to be the best behaved kids on Earth. She was mortified to tell her family when she had her first child because she already was in trouble, but they still supported her. I'm a 13-year-old virgin so I wouldn't know anything about what you're going through but if you're this nervous, you might want to talk to the father (who is hopefully your age) and his family first, to get practice. if you dont want to do that you can always talk to your friend's or a teacher. I hope I helped and would love to recieve updates.

Im 14 yes i have a bf and do kiss him but listen if you dont get this problem solved how will you support your baby my mother was 19 when she got my big sister and bro you gotta have a baby shower you have to tell someone you really trust because the girl in a TV was 14 and pregnant her baby died because of bearly support make sure you dont throw it in the trash like she did your not a hoe maybe it was the guy remember there is bad men out there that want you for you know what you got to find the true one that wont get you pregant and im so sorry about this you wont even be able to hang with your buds Ok Here is my advice Never drink winer soda smoke cover it up if you feel embarssed make sure you tell at least someone so when the baby is born you have atleast a sitter NEVER date another guy till your 25 XD if you did and always love your YOUR baby YOU Made Babies ARE SO CUTE make sure you got to a hospital And make sure its born in america if you are because if its not it wont be able to head back.Well i hoped this helped! I HOPE ITS A GirL! Dont be shy

hey my sister did the same thing she was 14 and got pregnant my mother was the type of ladys that would tell us if you get out pregnant you get your stuff and go because im not going to be taking care of more kids here my sister was so scared she didnt tell anyone until i saw that she was getting the tub in stomach and i asked her she was planning to runaway because seh was scared of my mom but she told her my mom was mad as hell for real but after a while she was just like well what can i do im not going to kick her out she didnt give her all the support she needed but she did give her some you dont need alot just as long as your and your boyfriend believe you can do it go for it it sucks cuz your young and you cant get a job or anything but theres places you can go and help you out with all that but just stopping worrying about everybody else and start worrying about how to eat and all that cuz all that has alot to do with how health you and your baby are going to be i really believe you could do it you have all my support and well good luck i hope everything goes just fine and keep in touch

question?..why do it when your'e young? i mean..if you say you're mature..why didn't you think of the possibility that you might get pregnant..its all really weird..but i am glad that i belong in a country that actually thinks..no offence..but then again..it is true..

i think u should keep the baby dont care wat your parents say this is a free country dont let them stop u it is your choice and they dont know how u aare feeling to this type of situation and if you dont have a job then u beeter finf one quick or do something becasue if u dont then u nor your baby will surrive if the father nor your family going to be ther. trust once u have the baby your family will soon relize that they would have to b e ther for u . now go and have that baby

Well let me tell you, I had my first child at 14, and yes it will be rough at first, and your parents may be upset at first, but once the pregnancy gets further along, they will have a change of heart more than likely. It sounds as if you will be a good mother, so don't let anything or anyone discourage you from your future, it's not gonna be the end of the world for you. My daughter is now 20 years old and I am 34 and we're the best of friends. Good Luck..

gyrl wut in da world u ain't have no business doin dat in da first place now u have 2 deal wit da consequences..it's best for u 2 go head get it out before u start showing..u should have protected ur self dummy..well wuts done is done so tell them cuz if u dnt u putting ur baby in danger because u only 14 u can't support it by urself

i dont know what to tell you but tell your parents anyway they love you and they maybe mad and disappointed but they will get over it. nd if they diown you they will be missing out on their child and grandchilds life they will come around. as 4 the father 4get him you dont need him but do tell him you didnt doo this by yourself and them people will be in his life if he dont own up to his resposibility. and you need to find a family member tht will accept you

i am sorry to say that on gaia there was a 14 year old kid and his girl friend got pregnat and he wanted to abort if he is your boyfriend too bad

he put a topic and most people said to abort

hey, no matter what people tell you your not a slut and if your parents dont let you keep the baby there's still adoption

u shoulndt do it at this age i=ur t young

not a big deal if u want that baby
but how bout your school?
Think bout it already??

i am pro choice my dear you have to think of the fact that it's not going to be you financially responsible for this bany but your family members your not even old even to legally get a job sweetie. Re-think this and i dont care if someone thinks i'm a bad guy but abortion is a real option here for you this is your future that you have already have to work so much harder then a woman who has a career and steady job i'm 27 and bought a new home car and have a husband who loves me however me and my hubby are'nt even ready to have kids yet. I'm sure your a smart girl and even though you can create life does not mean that your ready for it you rbody certainly is not ready for it look into all option adoption having this child and especially abortion because you have that right my dear

people she already made her decision but listen she not a slut for what she did she made a mistake people make mistakes dont judgeher for that i hoped u made the right choice a life is a bad thing to lose

THINKING ABORTION THINK AGAIN.. SHOW YOUR PARENTS IF YOU NEED TO..

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I think that you should consider abortion. If you're 14, you still got alotta things to do(high school, college ect) and a baby isn't gonna help.

Be smart. Try to think about what is going to be best for you baby as well as yourself. I too found myself pregnant at a very young age. Nobody can make any decision for you as it is a very individual situation, however, you and your child have your whole lives ahead of you. Check into all options and tell your family. I though my family would react the way you said but they didn't. They were upset and disappointed but they ended up supporting me and we became closer in the end. Good luck to you!