I'm 14 and pregnant

I'm 14 and I just found out I'm pregnant.. I have no idea what I'm going to do. Once my family finds out they will disown me and always think or me as a slut, I really want to have this baby and give the world to it, because I know I will be a good...

mother, but it's not going to be easy to deal with a family that doesn't support me.. and I'm afraid that the father of this baby isn't going to help me support it, I really need help on this... I have no idea what to do..

well im 14 too and what my moms says wit having a baby u have 3 choices get an abortion and live wit killing a human being 2 give it too adoption and going through life wondreing if every child walking by is urs or through do what u got to do to care for that being so sista if the pops wont man up dont sit sround crieing about it find a job open up an bank account and do what u gotts do but tell ur family u cant just asume what will happen trust me god will make away

hey i can't say tat i totaly know how you feel, but i'm only thirteen and i think theres a chance i might be pregnant. it's scary, especially since my parents are waay religeous and all my friends are christian so i really don't have anyone to go to! i hope everything works out for you, and good luk with the whole parents thing, they should be kind of angry at first because they're your parents they care, but they'll be okay eventually. They just might not be 100% okay with you keepinit because you're only 14.

i am 14 too and I think I am pregnat too..The father lives right beside me and the bad thing about it is that we have only been together for 37 days

my aunt and uncle adopted a boy some 42 years ago from a young unwed mother. today he is married, has 3 young boys, and is a very successful real estate broker in Colorado.

The neighbors next door have two adopted children, as do the parents of my oldest daughter's best friend. There's nothing wrong with adoption; sometimes it's the best thing for your baby, and an incredibly un-selfish thing to do should you decide on adoption.

wow hey im 15 now and i got pregnant before countless times ever since i was 13. yeah i lost my virginity to my bf but now we are still tgt. but the weird thing is, i always get pregnant and the baby cant survive past 2 months. so alltogether, 7 lives were gone. yeah i feel sad and i think that each live is very colourful but its juz impossible for mi to keep them. haha. but if i were to be pregnant and managed to giv birth to it, i guess it would be reali hard. my bf isnt reali responsible he juz ask if my tummy is ok once in a blue moon but he's reali nice as a person. we'r not prepared for it. well ive stopped having s*x although i know i wun get preg for more than 2 months. but i wun wan to have a baby at this age bcoz i need to concentrate on my studies and stuffs. and my parents would be terribly upset abt it. so, yeah juz be careful, and dun waste ur youth!

You are only 14 and if you are prepared to have your own baby then do it but if i were you i wouldn't keep it I would give it to a family that really wants to have a baby but they can't have one of their own..It's the right thing to do and whatever you do please don't have s*x again until you are ready to have kids on your own and be a good parent and don't get married to a guy that you don't know and date for atleast 2-3 years before you get married..p.s don't get an abortion please let the baby have a chance and i promise your parenhts will be there for you and yeah they might seem mad but they will forgive you and be there through times with you when you most need them..Good Luck =]

i think u should have a sitdown with some dr and than when u feel the time is right tell ur parents everything will be ok

hey,
i have a baby of my own and im 15, had him when i was 14 =/.
i thought all negative about him too but if you kno you'll be a good mother then just keep on thinkin positive.
try talkin to the baby's daddy, but dont come at him all quick or he'll panic and run away (thats what my baby's daddy did)
and if your close to one of your family members that u kno u can trust and just tell them.
tell a couple of people, like close friends or something.
then the word will get out and your mom will probally ask you questions and just tell her the truth, and i doubt that your mom will yell at u that much or probally yell at u at all.
she'll probally bitch at ur bf or something =]
ahha
but idk thats what i did, and through out my whole time having the baby in my stomach i didnt kno what to do, never went to go see a doctor or nothing.
parents never found out kuz i always wore a hoodie[it was the winter time]
then i had a home delivery =/
it was kinda bad but i was scared about everything but my baby camed out as the baby i always wanted. =]

well good luck, get back at me if u need anything.
i wanna help =]

Definitely tell your family, at first they will probably be upset, but then they will remember that you are their flesh and blood. Remember this, Blood is thicker than water. To me it means that no matter what a family member does, they're still family, whether they disown you or not, you will always be in their hearts. On what to do with the baby, abortion is the choice I would take, but I'm a guy. You could still have it and give it to adoption too. However, because of your age their is a chance that the baby could have problems when grown, or you could get sick too. Sorry if I wasn't much help.

Maybe you should just tell your parents the truth and bring your baby to this world

hey. I know probablly half of these answers will be the same as mine. I'm 23, and I have wanted a baby since i was like 13. Now that I have him, I cherish him and love with all my heart, but realize my life is now his. People say you cant go out and do things once you have a baby.. thats not true, you cant pretty much do the usuals, but you have to remember, he is at your beck and call. when he wants it, you get it. As for the daddy. OR your family. they should understand, and one or the other needs to be there for you and the support ..you'll need helpers. good luck with your decisions!! 3

iam a 16 year old girl and i think i may be pregnant as well. if ur parents disown u that just means they arent good parents. if u want to have this baby then thats great but if not then there are always other options.if u need anyone to talk to im here im goin through the same thing i know how u feel.

Well I Got Pregnant When I Was 15 And I Panicked And Had An Abortion. Not A Day Goes By When I Don't Think About What I Did And Completely Regret It.
Just Make Sure You Make The Right Decision For You.
You Should Tell Your Parents, Mine Weren't Helpful But They Were Supportive As Was My Boyfriend. You Never Know How They'll React Until You Tell Them.

Umm wow well i think..umm..wow well woy had it by now so i guss i dont need to awnser and thats good cause i cant.

sux

hi
i decided to respond to this cause i might be pregnant right now and i need another 14 yearold in the same situation to talk to. myspace-ww.
aim- RissaTheKittyKat

IM 16 AND 7 MONTHS PREGNANT I TOLD MY MOTHER WHEN I WAS 4 MONTHS SO I WOULDNT HAVE 2 ABORT IT I THOUGHT MY MOTHER WAS GONNA DISOWN ME CUZ SHES A STRICT LADY AND DA FATHER ALREADY SAID HE DIDNT WANT IT BUT THINGS TUNED OUT DIFFERENT WHEN HIS MOTHER FOUND OUT WHICH LEFT ME NO CHOICE 2 TELL MY MOTHER SHE WAS REALLY UPSET BUT 2 MONTHS LATER SHE WAS REALL Y HAPPY 4 ME AND MY BOYFRIEND WELL HE TOLD ME IF I HAVE IT HES LEAVIN I SAID BYE AND HE DIDNT I TOLD HIM IF HE REALLY LOVE ME THEN IT SHOULDNT B A PROBLEM CUZ I NO IT WASNT A PROBLEM WHEN U WAS FUCKIN ME WELL HES HELPIN AND EVERYTHIN DIDNT TURN OUT DA WAY I THOUGHT IT WOULD..

you know what i really admire what you said..for my sort of advice for you..yes they will get mad at you first.but after that they will think you need their help..co'z even you did a lot of bad things they probably help you because they are your parent's be strong for baby..and for self..i pray for you always to be strong..take care of your self and your future baby..good luck..god bless you always

your family should support you no matter what.
xoxo

woah, hunny thats a tough spot. well, first ur gonna have to tell your family. (they will find out.) and i understand that you think you'll be a great mother but, think about the kid.. your 14!! it wouldn't be fair to them. i mean, lets say you go ahead and have this baby, and when this baby, lets call it Toad, is in school and everyone finds out his mothers only 14 years older than him Toad is not gonna be thanking you. And, its probably not safe. i mean, i hear there's lots of pain. idk about you but i am verryy bad with pain. lol.