I'm 14 and pregnant

I'm 14 and I just found out I'm pregnant.. I have no idea what I'm going to do. Once my family finds out they will disown me and always think or me as a slut, I really want to have this baby and give the world to it, because I know I will be a good...

mother, but it's not going to be easy to deal with a family that doesn't support me.. and I'm afraid that the father of this baby isn't going to help me support it, I really need help on this... I have no idea what to do..

Well first of all i am 19 and with 2 kids and my oldest was born when i was only 15 so i know what your going threw family will get over it yeah believe me my family was so mad at me but they were more hurt and disapointed than anything and then i was only 17 when i got pregnant again i mean i walked across the stage 7 months pregnant it wasnt fun but in all honesty do what you think is right not what others think is right or what they would do its hard dont get me wrong but you get through it and things will get better and dont caunt on the father either of my kidas dads are there so you dont need him your a strong young lady you just need to realize it.

oh my god hun!it will end up ok.i understand i mean im pro choice but i just couldnt get an abortion if i was pregnant.well first get a job as a waitress or somthing like that.then tell your parents that way if they do kick you out you will have a back up.if the dad wont help you cant make him.if no one else will help you go to a friend see if she will ask her parents to put you up for a while untill you have enough fora an apartment.if none of that works a counciler might help you find somthing.i hope you have a an easy trip finding you and your baby a home.

oh and dont worry your not a slut tons of girls our age are you kno doing stuff they just try to hide it

Don't listen to those people who tell you to have an abortion, get rid of that baby, your too young. Some of them don't even know what it is like. Your the only one your heart will trust and listen to. And you have to face that life does get hard. I was a momma at sixteen. But you have to understand that God made things happen for a reason. And you have to figure out why. Trust yourself. Just because your 14 does not matter. It is all a big test to him. Once you have an ultrasound and you see and hear that heart beat you will want to keep that baby forever. Your the only one who can protect it from any harm. Tell your parents. It is one of the hardest things to do. And if you do deciide to keep your baby, DON'T be ashamed.

I think everything happens for a reason. Your not a slut. I know its hard on you right now but imagine how happy you will be when you see your baby the first time. You can call a clinic and get advice. I just hope it all works out. Your parents will flip out at first but it will work out and they will be more supportive than you think they will it will take time for them to get passed it. Call the boys and girls town national hotline for advice if there are no clinics there for you. They will give you nubers to call and give you advice if your parents do flip out.

im 18 and i think im a month pregnant or so..........my momma if i tell her would be disapointed but not my dad and hiz mom....thiz happen last year but it waz a false alarm my momma was fureause but my poppz was proud n happy he couldn't wait to be a grandfather........................................he was so proud he evan told hiz girlfriend so parentz are diff and they react diff as well.

u should of thought about that before you had sex....how is the father going to support the baby?? u know damn well that young boys just like poking girls and dont give a damn if they end up pregnant....you cant get childs support from someone who doesnt work... and you are way to young to get an appartment or have a job...what are u gonna do...?? what is a 14 year old girl doing having sex anyway?? you'll see what i mean when ur baby girl just turned into her young teen years and is sleeping around and gets pregnant.. why should you expect ur family to support you if they werent the ones with u while you were having sex?...how can you make it in this world having a baby and being too young and jobless...u are definetly putting more work for your family...babies need diapers, clothes ,milk,bottles, medicine etc...and what happens when he gets sick? who is goona pay the doctor bill? how are you gonna get the money for all these things?...babies are expensive...u should of thought about all of this..your teen years is suppose to be having appropriat fun, hanging with friends, going out and when your 17 and up is when you want to go to more parties ,clubs, dances....you cant do none of that and u wont get a chance to ...u cant just get up and go any more, the baby will be fussy, crying, tired, and sick and you would be tired of sleepless nights....my mom always told me to have all the fun i want like going out to clubs, parties etc...have a good job and a place of my own and be finacially stable to start a family...im almost 19 and baby free and loving my young life and freedom

I THINK U SHUD TELL YA MAM COZ SHE WILL FIND OUT IN THE END ND ITS BETTER CUMIN FROM U. THEY WONT DISOWN U THEY WILL BE CROSS AAT FIRST COZ YA 14 ND THEY WANT THE BEST 4 YA BT AFTER THT THEY WILL BE PLEASED 4 YA. I KNOW ITS NT EASY BT IT DOSE GET BETTA TRUST ME. THEY WILL NT THINK YA A SLUT ASWELL
JUST TELL THEM GD LUCK ND BEST WISHES

i really dont think girls should be having sex at 12. im 16 soon and have been in a serious relationship for a long time. and havnt thought about sex yet. its life changing and you need to respet yourself before you doing anything.

just think about your actions.

Hi i fell pregnant at 14 and i didnt tell my parents till i was 7 months because i thought the same as your thinking they will be upset but you yourself has got to understand that it was your doing my daughter is now 2 and im 17 they love my girl to bits im now getting on with my life got my own place and shes happy do whats best for you explain to your mum tell her whats happened and what you want to do as you want to keep the baby explain to her why at the end of the day she will be mad your her little girl in her eyes your still her baby but you have now got to grow your mum loves you she wouldnt let you go on the streets or disown you but you got to understand why she will be mad talk to her everything will be alright Donna good luck for the future

a baby is a new person. a person that needs love, support, and thoughtful care.

the father can't support you. a 14 yo girl with a baby cannot earn enough money to support herself and her child, and has no support of a husband or family.

do what's best for your baby. adoption.

a baby is a new person. a person that needs love, support, and thoughtful care.

the father can't support you. a 14 yo girl with a baby cannot earn enough money to support herself and her child, and has no support of a husband or family.

do what's best for your baby. adoption.

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Hey; I too ended up being 14 and pregnant!!! I also thought my parents would disown me!!! Waiting to tell them only made matters worse!!! Yeah my mom was mad; but she was more hurt than anything!!! She was hurt that I didn't come to her!!! After a while; she got use to it; and really focused on getting everything my baby needed!!! Here's my sugestion; don't hide it from your parents, they will support you no matter what!!! First go to the father to be and let him know!!! Don't wait to go to the doctor for the doctor to tell them; it will only make things worse!!! Go to them; they will always love you no matter what you do!!! They may go mad at first, but then when they calm down you'll see!!! I took my mother to the doctor where she couldn't go all out mad!!! It will only make the relationship between you and your parents that much stronger!!! I am online all the time if you need to chat!!!

Okay, tell someone in your family that you think you could trust. Now you need to stop moping around and get up and get a job. Tell the father your pregnant and he need 2 get A job 2 or you will file chil support. Then if your parents kick you out you could have a little money and file for welfare. and get a little apartment.

I am so sorry!
Go to your mother and tell her you have done something terrible!
Then tell her what happend.
I would go ahead and tell her.
What ever happens do not have an abortion!
Keep the baby and never give up!

baby your 14 think like a adult right now.. sweetie you will NOT be able to give the world to that baby right now at your age. where are yall going to live and whose going to pay for it? while you work whos going to watch the baby and whose going to pay for daycare? im only saying these things because i was 17 when i got pregnant, 17. i was still a baby myself and if it wouldnt havebeen for my parents i dont ahve a clue on what i would have done to take care of my baby i couldnt afford rent and all the other stuff that comes with it. this is a very big resposibility very big. please think this over and i do think you should talk to your parents, they are your parents and they will love you regaurdless i promise that and i know this because there is nothing in the world that would make me stop loving my daughter

Well I'm 14 years old and I have a 1 yr old son. When I found out I was pregnant I could've died right there in the emergency room. I was so scared of what my friends and family would say. But you know what I stuck it out and the father of my baby is in jail so I basically do this by myself. I work I go to school and I have a 4.0 gpa. Im just here to tell you that its hard but its not impossible.

tell him your problem
then if he doesnt listen go to a realitive that really cares about you
if not tell your parents right away so they dont hate you for the rest of your life
you know even if they hate youthey still are family

I'm so sorry! Tell your mother, even if your afraid. It won't be as bad as anticipating it and dreading telling her. The longer you wait, the worse it will get. If you think that your parents will do something drastic or try to harm you or your unborn child, then tell another trusted adult--anyone to help you work through your problems and options, and who would be willing to go with you when you eventually decide to tell your mother and father. If you have someone there with you, who you know is supporting you 100% it will make you feel a lot less uneasy. If you can't think of any trusted adult to tell, go to a local clinic, talk to a guidance councelor, psychologist, clergy member, ANYONE. This isn't something that should be ignored or put off--it is a life altering issue that needs to be adressed right now! I wish you the best of luck, you and your unborn child will be in my prayers tonight. God bless you and be with you. xox;;Greta