I'm 14 and pregnant

I'm 14 and I just found out I'm pregnant.. I have no idea what I'm going to do. Once my family finds out they will disown me and always think or me as a slut, I really want to have this baby and give the world to it, because I know I will be a good...

mother, but it's not going to be easy to deal with a family that doesn't support me.. and I'm afraid that the father of this baby isn't going to help me support it, I really need help on this... I have no idea what to do..

I’m just shocked at all the young age pregnancies. There are so many birth control remedies out there. How come you kids aren’t using them? Trust me, I know what its like to get caught up in the moment but having a child at age 12 14 is not going to be easy. I counsel teenage girls that are pregnant and I tell them the same. The one thing you should never do is wait to go see a doctor, planned parenthood is a wonderful organization that helps teenage girls with their pregancies. In time, your parents will accept things, but at first its going to be a shocker and thats normal. Your parents are going to want to know how you plan on your raising your child, what is going to happen with school, are you going to get a job, where are you going to live etc.. be ready to answer those questions. Just dont tell them you dont know and if you know who the father is and dont plan on being with him file for child support. Big thing is take care of yourself, eat healthy, exercise (walk), daily, no smoking or drinking. You want your child to be healthy. Good luck and I hope this helps

WOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW WATZ WITH THE UNDERAGE PREGNANCIES!! GUYS CAN NEVER BE TRUSTED ANYWAY THEY MAKE YOU PREGNANT AND THEN THEY DUMP U!!!! SO Y SLEEP WITH THEM IN THE FIRST PLACE?? THEY PRETEND TO LUV U, ONCE THEY GET WAT THEY WANT THEY LEAVE U!!!!!!!!
ITS SAD !!!!

Hey. Don't listen to the negative advice that people are giving you on here. Only listen to the possitive. I know that you are going through a lot right now so don't let the judgement of other people bring you down. Here is my advice: You don't need an abortion because murdering an inocent being because of your own mistake(or his mistake) is unethical. It's wrong and you have already said that you already care for this baby. Also, don't disown your family! Obviousely you love them or you wouldn't be so scared about them disowning you. And don't stay with that guy if he doesn't treat you right. Obviousely he could treat you much better. Your a fourteen year old. To me I see that as a little vulnerable and you will understand when you are older. It seems like he took advantage of you. No matter what, keep your head held high through the hard times and remember that any child, no matter what the circumstances, is a blessing. Trust that if you work hard...and yes you will have to grow up way too fast. I'm so sorry about that, it will be worth it when you see the positive effect that it has had on your child. I'm not here to judge you. I want to help you. You need to tell your family. They are going to find out sooner or later, so tell them yourself. Be brave. I can't promise that they will be okay with it because I don't know them, but I'm sure they love you and though they may be stubborn, they will come around. Make sure you get a job as soon as possible. I know that may be hard for a fourteen year old, but just keep trying. Stay in school if at all possible. And remember the most important thing of all. This gets me through all of my stress and heartache.(You may not be a christian, but either way, you should at least think about this.) The lord is with you and no matter what you are going through, you should be happy because nothing you are going through could be worse than what the lord went through for you and you should be greatful. Remember that it is the devil who brings you down and he is no match if you stay strong and have faith that everything WILL be ok. And it will.

Good luck with everything
Sorry to type so much. It's late. I ramble!
You and the baby should be fine if you work for it.

ur parents will b upset at first but their ur parents they will stand by u no matter what as for the father i think u need to talk to his parents and see what they say.i hope this advice helped.

you guys do know she posted this almost last year? I'm sure she already had the baby or aborted it or w/e she did with it

i think you should tell your parents i am pregnant, please help me.

that is what parents are for! helping you when you are in troble.

hope that helped.

i advice you never to give up .do what you think its corect. never abort you will kill some one.its hard to draw water that has poured on the ground.accept you did a mistake and we all learn from our past mistakes .if every one disowns you only one wont the one who created youhe knew that one day it will be like that so dont be afraid he will tke care of you and has greater plans for you.believe in him

maywell, while your faith is wonderful, i must object to your use of a public forum to get your religious views out. pls dont preach on public forums. we who wish to share in faith go willingly to those places where that is our choice, but in a public forum it isnt appropriate. ask people to discuss these things with you in private, certainly, and in this way you may have great results. however your use of public forums to state religious ideas to influence people on what to do, using forums to convince people of your way of thinking or believing... no youre better off enjoying yourself with people who share your views in your temple and go ahead and live your life accordingly and leave the job of helping people make their own choices those who need support to come to terms with their difficulties to others of us who trust people to best to make up their own minds about their lives.

I was 14 when I lost my virginity and I had that boyfriend for about 1 yr...I got pregnant at 15 years old ...when my parents found out...of course they went crazy! especially my dad ...im his only daughter and the youngest...they screamed at me! it felt awful! they never liked my x boyfriend...I would always choose him over anything...I was blind...at 6 mths pregnant...my babydaddy stopped calling...im not the type that will be beggin...so I left it like that...throughout my whole pregnacy...who was there the whole time? MY PARENTS!!! who was there when I had the baby? MY PARENTS!!! who has bought my baby ever single diaper and all the formula? MY PARENTS!!! they were the only ones that stood there by my side when otheres left my side!!! I never expected anything like that from my babydaddy...we had been together so long..but now I see how someone can change around on you all of a sudden...I am now 17 years old...and now I realize how hard it is to be a mother...now I understand why my parents always told me what they always did tell me! they werent being overprotective...they were just trying to do the best for me...they do everything for me...they take care of alexa [[my daughter]] and take care of me...they want me to keep going to school...they work their a** off to give me and my daughter everything we want and need!! sometimes I hate being a mom but then I look at her and realize that if it wasnt because of her I wouldnt have accomplished everything I did! I graduated a whole year early and am now going to go to college this fall...she was my motivation...its now not just me who I should think about but also her...I want the best for her...now I know that EVERYTHING DOES HAPPEN FOR A REASON...so dont worry...everything that doesnt kill you only makes you stronger!!! good luck! and it will be okay! LOVE esthela! :]

God bless you and your baby.
I hope both of you are doing well.
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Hi i think you are to young to have a child at this age you've got your whole life ahead of you and you've got loads of time to have kids. As for your family just tell an adult that you trust and they might be able to help you get an abortion.

cherry, considering you have a bias on this subject perhaps the thing would be to tell them what you would do in this situation but your credibility is reduced telling them what they should do here remember they are looking to have their fears heard and wish to find understanding. why they are asking others for input? it seems to be they arent prepared for positive action but why? who knows. theres a strong possibility they arent well supported and generally dont have good relations. that can be remedied by them making new connections to new people, but that takes alot of good luck, time and effort. or maybe they have support, but have weak communication skills, or suffer with other weaknesses like poor stress management skills ...the list could be long. life is full of learning and building up good skills comes with time. the main thing for us is not to know all the reasons why they are in their predicament. there isnt alot we can do for them with that with us here and them there.
what is important for us to offer them is hope. and, we must know that when we work at helping them from a more neutral position this will do much to help them make their best choices. its not easy. esp with some of these subjects that we have such strong reactions to, i know its a lesson in keeping cool but just thot id tell you to take this into consideration.

I think you should have the child and be decated mother because it clear to see you don't have a good relationship with your family. So build one with your child and yes be hard but nothing easy and if you do right unto that child you be bless one day. and how would you feel giving your own flesh and blood up. wat if your mother did it to you. You would even be hear and live from miskaes and learn they give life and adventure. Rasie your child in way you wish you could have because child are the world future it all in there hand. Keep your head up and pray about it every child is a blessing

Are ycrazy? You have not lived your life yet. You are to young to have a baby. What about college, party's, having fun with your friends, just going out. You will end up losing all your freedom. You ou need to think about everything. You are just a kid yourself. I would be pissed if I was your family too.

What was you thinkin? He isn't going to stay with you. You will be raising that kid by yourself.

dont be scared i no its all so fast but god is with you and he nos whats best for your life....we all get into things sometimes that seem practically impossible to get out of 14 or not u need to take proper responsibilities i have plenty of young friends with babies and from the day they found out till now have matured incredibly because they have children in thier lives now im not saying its right shame on them for having kids so young but sweety its not the end of the road

im 16. and not more then 4 months ago i was pregnant, things didnt work out for me and i miscarriaged but i will tell you that i was planning with my whole heart to love, raise and support my child. my mom cried when i told her but i was in a relationship with an 18 year old guy... needless to say i have a hardheaded father who i was deadly afraid of telling... and i found myself in the same situation that you are in now... i told my mom as soon as i could and i went to see a doctor with her... she was there for me and as soon as i found out i miscarriaged she was there for me when i did nothing but cry. i had told one of my cousins and she opened her mouth and told my father who didnt even tell me he knew... and then one day me and my boyfriend broke up and im kind of grateful that we did. thats when i was told that he knew and if he saw i was having the baby he was going to put him in jail. that put me in a more serious position then i have ever been in in my entire life... but when i sat down with him and explained the situation and explained that accidents happen he understood and even my hard headed father didnt kick me out or disown me which i thought for sure that he would. i wish you the best of uck with you pregnancy and you newborn when the time comes and i say keep your baby and dont let anyone get in your way of what you think is right deep down in your heart. 3 casey

listen sweety your parents love you no matter what is going to be hard, but you need they love and support right now, it may be yelling and screaming, maybe they may tell you do have an abortion, be patience, and tell them that you want this baby, and that you would be a good mom, tell them that your sorry, for getting them thru this, and also tell them that you love them, and you need they help, if they love you like i think, they will help you, dont give up have faith in god because what the other advice you have they are great ok and god bless

I was only 17 when I became pregnat with my first child. I was afraid to tell my parents too because I came from a christian home. Then I decided it was best if they knew as I was NOT giving the child up. They were mad for a while and then they supported me and planned to help me raise my child since the father has not been seen since I was two months pregnat and my child is almost ten now. When she was four months old I got involved with the love of my life and he supported her every since. Dont Give Up!! There is hope for single mothers and you will be rewarded for keeping the bay with smiles and kisses and hugs. Good Luck!!

yo yo girl iz feel uz fo' reelz. My girl dun got nocked up n i dontz no wat to do. Face it, lifes tuff its tuffr if ur stupid. Hope ur babe iz doin good cuz i guess it been born by know.

I can't believe you would let yourself get pregnant at that age im your age and I wouldn't dream of being so silly seriously man havn't you eva heard of a condom?