I'm 14 and pregnant

I'm 14 and I just found out I'm pregnant.. I have no idea what I'm going to do. Once my family finds out they will disown me and always think or me as a slut, I really want to have this baby and give the world to it, because I know I will be a good...

mother, but it's not going to be easy to deal with a family that doesn't support me.. and I'm afraid that the father of this baby isn't going to help me support it, I really need help on this... I have no idea what to do..

My sister got pregnant at 14, My family wasn't to happy. But once they realized that she was not going to give it up. They accepted it. It will be a long hard raod for you! But if you truly love that baby it will be okay~ Just follow your heart and dont let anyone make you do what you dont want to do~~

hey, im 14 and i think i might be pregnent. i know how you feel when you say that you want to have this baby but your scared because of your family and everything. i feel the same. i don't know how to tell if i am pregnent or not though :S i think you should keep it though. if i got pregnent i would keep it. god wouldn't give you a burden that you couldn't handle! well, add me on msn if you have it Fun mail me if you need someone to talk to and for anyone else if they can help me out aswell! xox

im 14 and I think I might be pregnent! I need help by anyone who has msn Fun mail me

I think you should go threw with having a baby. KEEP IT. god wouldn't give us girls a burden if he knew we couldn't handle it!

I know how you feel when you say that your scared to tell them because they will disown you. but add me if you have msn because I have some people you can talk to for help and all.

hey girls my name is Adrianna and i am 15 and im pregnant. i jus found im 20 weeks. and i found out its a girl my boyfriend (babys dad) is 17 will be 18 he is very excited and happy as so am i. i told my mom a week ago and she is very very upset with me. she hasnt talked to me since she has decided to disown me but i know she will come around if any of you have questions or anything else plz email me i respond right after i get it. Fun mail me thanks girls and best of luck!

I am a 13 year old female and ofcourse i have been thinking about sex. I always think about *what if i get pregnant?* I always thought that abortion was bad and that everyone diserves a Birthday. Just think before you act. You should have sex with someone you love and who cares about you very much because if pregnancy does happen than you want to be ready.

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Hi, I think you should keep the baby if that is what you want to do. There are places you can stay with your baby if things go wrong when you tell your parents. Try http://www.shelter.org.uk. I hope everthing turns out ok for you. please keep in touch love sam xx P.S. I am also 14!

hia...im 14 too and would love to have a baby..but you should really think this through, i know you have probably heard it all before but it is a long term commitment if your family will not help you through this nor will your boyfriend then i would seriously think about how you are going to afford to pay for this baby. maybe you should wait a couple of years before commiting yourself to a child. love to chat again and maybe help you through this!
love lauren xx

i am a mother of a 14 year old girl. no matter what she does I couldn't imagine not helping her through. I hope your family understands what a sweet girl you are no matter what. Everyone makes decisions in life whether they are the right ones or not is another story. There is help out there for you and if you just need to talk I'm here.....

heyy well look im in the same shoes as yew.but idkk if im pregnant.idkk what to do.if anything write to mehh`.

who has sex at 14!

the only reason is rape

this is all very sad really. what should be the best yrs of your young life will abruptly end with having your babies, who wont have your full and undivided attn because you are so young! or you will give them all your time but there will be resentment its not anywhere ideal is it. young ladies of your age should be planning for the school dance and thinking about your future, not focused on diapers and so on. i hope atleast some smarter ones of you are considering all your options and coming up with adoption as one of them.

my namee is shawn. i'm 15 and i live in utah. i don't have a girlfriend and i haven't got a girl pregnant, so i don't really know what kind of advice to give you. but i hope the best for you and i believe thatif you keep the baby you will make an awesome mom. you should probably look for help from other family members.

well if you tell your parents they will be mad of course, but they will relize that they are going to that it is a living thing inside of you they cant make you get rid of it, cuz its ur baby not their baby i know what ur going through im 14 pregnant 2 but the father wants me 2 get an abortion or hes gonna leave me but hang in there go with ur heart

this was asked one yr ago we dont know things are for the original poster but for anyone else reading and has a similar situation get support whereever you can to make decisions like this. dont make decisions while you are emotionally upset, and when you tell your parents the big news pls find someone to be with you for that dont go thru that conversation alone. work out a plan and get organized one way or the other. it will be hard but it is something anyone can handle when they arent alone. dont forget the option of adoption either. take control and take responsibility. just because someone has the right doesnt mean they get the right. private message me if you wish to talk to someone. ill get the msg within a day or so xo

i dont know what to say.... its just sad that you are going to have a baby at 14...i guess it is what you get for having unpretected sex...or sex at all 14 is a young age...why would you even have it at that age... so sad makes us 14 yr olds sound like hoes. wow now your going to have a bad rep. and when you tell your bf that your preg. if he dnt stay with you then find some kind of help cause your going to need it!! srry to say that but its your fault for being a hoe......

life aint a garden stop being a hoe...i say dat to all ppl having sex at a young age...... and even worse getting pregnant!!!! SO SAD!!!!!!!!!

Last year i was thirteen and i lost my virginity to someone who didnt deserve it. I regret doing this with my life because now i cant stop. He got me pregnant but i lost it and that left me emotionally scarred. He didnt even care about me and thats what hurt me the most. Now im 15 and im still not over anything. I believe you should be prepared because that can happen to you he might just up and run. Think about this thoroughly.

this is for you jimjam i am 15 and i have a 1 year old baby girl and i have twins on the way and what the hell so what am i a slut

Ok take a deep breath and think!!!!! I have not been put through this but you have to tell your parents, because if they find out from someone else you probably would be in more trouble. You also need to talk to the father of the baby and get together and talk about what you are going to do. Also see a therapist they can help.

hello
dont feel so guilty
even though you know it was wrong
i feel you will make a great mom
you have hope and that is good
be happy for your child, ok?
as long as you have something in your heart that is telling you that it is the last time getting pregnat with this age
bye sweety
be strong
i'll pray for you