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I'm 13, but i think i'm in love, is it okay to have sex?

Asked by mainsqueezee 24 days ago, 7 answers.

OKay, so I'm thirteen, and I think I'm in love.
Nono, I'm not one of those loosey goosey girls who says that to all of her boyfriends, and me and my boyfriend have been together for quite a while, He's not one of those horndogs you find all the time...

nowadays, hes sweet and kind, and had only kissed one other girl before me, I'm almost positive we will last, I know he's doing everything he can to ensure that, and so am I. I want to give him my all, he didn't ask, I offered. Is it okay to have sex?
Please don't comment back with any crap about how I'm not really in love blahblahblah, give it to someone who will listen. I just need the answer.
Thanks.

lou Answered by lornalou on Oct 31, 2009, 09:43AM
60 answers

if you feel ready and this is really the lad for you, and you feel he deserves you, then go for it, but just think; if you split up in 4 months time.. would you regret having sex with him? if the anwsers yes than don't do it, but if in 4 months you split up, would you think yeah I loved him, he deserved me and I'm glad I did it with him? then go for it, just make sure he's the one you trust your life and body with. good luck hope you make the right desicion happy x

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Answered by maletoa69 on Oct 31, 2009, 05:56AM
119 answers

13 is still kind of an early age to start having sex. I would wait in not till you 18 at least another year. I cant adivse much different as I started when I was 14. just make sure you use protection! you can always do other things too, there is dry humping, oral, mutual matsurbation, all these things are fun and will keep you and him out of trouble. just a thought. but if you think its right. then just do it safetly

Answered by skatermonique on Oct 31, 2009, 07:37AM
147 answers

Ok well Im 13 too and I LOVE!! My boyfriend, but sex hmm I don't think I will have sex with him but it's not that I don't want to because I would f*ck him right now but it's my age and a lot more...but if you think your ready then go 4 it you know it's your body and if you really love eachother and trust eachother then I wish the bessT 4 u... :D

Answered by fau on Oct 31, 2009, 11:04AM

the first time is really special but it only comes once so think it twice. I think that in your mind you have already decided 2 do it but you just need a confirmation. the fact that you are asking this question means that deep inside of u, you are insecure. I know that you probably dissagree with me but you will have all your life 2 have sex, right now you can enjoy your life in the way it is. you can show him your love in other ways, small details that can make both of you happy. anyway, just b sure that you wont regret!

best wishes

:) Answered by sidn3y123 on Nov 01, 2009, 11:28AM
671 answers

13 is pretty eaarly...
Juss stay with the kissing, and makingoutt...maybe touch a liill..
dont do somethinq yur gonna regrett..

Eh Answered by vanessasays on Nov 01, 2009, 02:33PM
421 answers

Nope
Nope
Nope
dont have sex until your ready for the consequences
YOU THINK YOUR INLOVe !
HAHAHA
your 13 , get over yourself you NOT inlove .

Answered by 71994 on Nov 04, 2009, 01:44PM
5 answers

If your almost positive it will last, then wait. Theres no point in rushing it at an early age.

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