I love my boyfriend but im in love with another guy what do I do?

OKAY I HAVE BEEN DATING THIS ONE GUY FOR LIKE THREE MONTHS AND HE IS IN LOVE WITH ME AND I JUST LOVE HIM.BUT I ALSO HAVE HAD A CRUSH ON THIS ONE GUY SINCE I BEEN IN THE 9TH GRADE NOW IM IN THE 12TH AND HE JUST GRADUATED LAST YEAR SO HE'S OUT OF SCHOOL NOW AND HE WENT ON TO THE ARMY BUT THE THANG IS NOW HE'S BACK HOME BECAUSE HE QUIT SO HE SAY. NOW THE GUY I HAVE THE CRUSH ON I MEAN I THINK OF HIM EVERYDDAY WONDERING WHAT IF? WHAT COULD HAVE HAPPEN IF I JUST TOLD HIM HOW I FELT ABOUT HIM NOW SOME HOW LAST NITE I SAW HIM AT THE STORE AND I SPOKE TO HIM AND AFTER I CAME OUT OF THE STORE I WAS FINTO WALK TO MY CAR AND LEAVE AND I TOLD MYSELF WANDA WALK OVER THERE AND TALK TO HIM. SO I DID I WALKED OVER AND HE TOLD ME IN SO MANY WORDS THAT HE LIKED ME AND I WAS SHOCKED VERY SHOCKED SO NOW IM ASKING YOU GUYS AND GIRLS WHAT SHOULD I DO. BECAUSE THE GUY I AM WITH NOW IS MADLY IN LOVE WITH ME AND I HAVE BROKEN UP WITH HIM 3 TIMES BEFORE AND I WENT BACK TO HIM BECAUSE MY FAMILY MADE ME FEEL BAD BY SAYING THAT HE IS A GOOD GUY AND HE LOVES YOU AND ALL HE TALKS ABOUT IS YOU. SO NOW ITS LIKE I CAN'T KEEP BREAKING UP WITH HIM BECAUSE HE HAS FEELING AND I LOVE HIM SO I DON'T WANT TO KEEP HURTING THEM BUT ITS JUST IM IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE ELES AND I DON'T WANT TO CHEAT ON HIM SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME... IM GOING CRAZY HERE.

How can you say you are in love with your boyfriend AND say you love this other guy?

And your family can't decide who you should be with, although I'm sure they like this guy cause he treats you so well.

Be sure you want to break up a 4th time with him before you do. Even he is going to get tired of being treated like this. And if you decide later that he WAS the best guy ever--it'll be too late.

And why should you believe this other guy likes you? Because he said so outside of a store? What else would he say? It wouldn't have worked to say, "Man, I don't really like you THAT much, but I sure could use some easy lovin'!" Well, he knew that wouldn't work, so he told you something flattering and now you are ready to drop the stead for him? Sounds like the steady could do better.

And think about this... the Army doesn't usually let someone quit. They usually kick the undesirables out. That's suspicious story from the get-go.

I can't tell you what to do, but you are cruising shark infested waters.

I'm in the exact same situation. I was told by a very wise woman(my mother) to do what is true to my heart. You cant keep leading him on like this. For me, its is seriosuly the exact same.

Just do what you know is right. Dont stay with this guy just because you will feel bad for him when you break up with him. Dont let your family intimidate you because he is nice. There is more to a guy than if he is nice.

***DO WHATS TRUE TO YOUR HEART!!!!***

I was in the exact same shoes sweetie
dont worrie im sure pretty much every girl
goes thru the same situation or similar
im a agreeing wiv her^^^
dont wats good 4 your self and your future
not what others want
its your life live your own
dont let other stand in the way
even if they are your family..people might say family knows best but sometimes thats wrong.. do what one you feel for the most..
id go 4 the one that you rekon would treat YOU right and is good for YOU
good luck
xo *peace*

be a lesbo